Sensual Jane

2011-03-15T19:39:00.002+02:00

Lovely

2010-10-01T20:23:00.006+02:00

6 tips to drive him wild

2010-09-30T16:09:00.003+02:00

1. Underneath your clothes

Men may not notice your new dress, but he will probably remind you years ahead about your stockings, tiny panties and sexy bra, the more so if you put on the most ill-fitted ones. Keep in mind that you may wear the simplest outfit outside the bedroom setting, but you should always wear lingerie you won't be embarrassed to show after you undress.

2. Use your sex muscles

When a man penetrates a woman the last thing he expects to see is her absolute calmness and immovability. Many women would get out of going to the sexologist if only they take advantage of the most powerful tool they have at their disposal-their sex or PC muscle. Nothing can heighten intimate experience more than a woman good at controlling her vagina. Training your PC muscle will help you not only keep your vaginal muscles in tone, but make an amazing revelation of your own sexual skills.

3. Add a bit of strip tease

If you haven't learned the common truth yet, then we need to say it again: men like to watch! They like to devour your breasts, your hips, your butt, your vagina and all your body with his eyes. You can be a nice Nelly, a business woman, a bluestocking outside your bedroom, but you should forget about all your "good girl" manners and free yourself from useless shyness and feed his sexual imagination. Keep in mind that the way you undress is one of the strongest turn-on for a man; otherwise they wouldn't spend their money on strippie and adult movies.

4. Move your bod

Nothing can leave your man at a loss as fast as your lifeless body and your indifferent look, almost saying "when will he cum at last". Of course, you shouldn't perform Brazilian dance in order to brighten up the situation. You just need to feel the inner urge to let him penetrate you most intimate part and that close connection between two of you. When you move your body synchronized with his own, you help him find the right angle and the right rhythm.

5. Learn his body

Don't try to reduce sex to moth-eaten practices. If you are used to be passive side in your love play, swap over and explore his body in full. While men seem to be more concentrated on their genitals, you give him a possibility to discover new hot areas he may not be aware of.

6. Take the initiative

99 % of men dream about a woman taking the initiative, the rest 1% is probably too shy to admit it. What could be more appealing to a man, than a woman who is smart enough to do the "work" themselves and let her partner derive the utmost satisfaction? It can be quite hard for him to always prove his masculinity and be "Mr. Hero" who drives you to the high of sexual ecstasy. That surely doesn't mean you should be somewhat pushy or aggressive, you just need to know that sometimes men need to feel they are being "guided".

What is e-commerce?

Female Orgasm during Sexual Intercourse

2010-09-28T14:08:00.001+02:00

One of the most common myths about the female orgasm is that women should only reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse.

This is definitely not true but it's a myth that has caused us to take women's sexual needs for granted for a long time. This myth actually started with Sigmund Freud, the developer of psychoanalysis, who had recognized that women could easily reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Freud dismissed this type of stimulation as juvenile and believed it was important for women to become more sexually mature by focusing only on vaginal stimulation to reach orgasms.

The problem is that the vagina was not designed for orgasms. It does not have the concentrated nerve endings that one finds in the clitoris or in the head of a penis, for example.

As a result of Freud's determination, women who could not reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse were considered to have some type of psychological impairment. All sorts of methods were devised in an attempt to "liberate" women from their reliance on the clitoris for sexual pleasure.

Only in recent decades has society begun talking openly about the women's right to enjoy sex and to reach orgasm in whatever manner worked for her.

Another common myth about the female orgasm is that only women fake orgasms.

Even though this book is about female orgasms, I think it’s important for both men and women to realize that orgasms are not going to happen during every sexual encounter. About one-fifth of men admitted that they have faked an orgasm with a partner. Their reasons for faking are the same as women's: they don't want their partners to be disappointed.

Orgasms don't always come easily in a partnership. Sure, when we masturbate we can probably get off every time because we know our bodies and we know what works. Our sexual partners have to learn these things over time and, most importantly, with our help.

Again, faking orgasms is not the answer for either sex. It just complicates the issue and prevents both partners from having a truly fulfilling sexual encounter.

The Importance of Female Libido Enhancement

2010-09-27T15:56:00.002+02:00

For many women they face the problems of sexual activity when they grow older. There will be various factors affecting it. It could be medical reasons as well as psychological reasons as well. Herbs are considered to be the best libido enhancing elements. They are natural as well as completely harmless. There are also other hormones that will help improve the condition of the libido.

Many women as they grow older find that they cannot perform sexually well, and they have been ignored for a long time. It has always been the men who have had the attention to treat their sexual disorders. Menopause, depression, stress and change in hormonal levels will be the causes of the libido level changing in a woman's body.

The enhancement of the libido in women will include a lot of blood flow to the clitoris, and will also enlarge it. Not only that, but it will help with the orgasms and one is most likely to have multiple orgasms with the help of enhancers. While the drop in libido means decrease in interest in sex, there will be a greater increase when the sex pills are taken for this disorder.

The entire productivity system will be strengthened when these female libido enhancers are used. There are several medications that are sold for this disorder and they are available at very reasonable prices. They not only help increase the sexual interest, there will be all the benefits required that are related to sex. This disorder is a big concern for women, because they will be unable to perform sexually as they grow older.

Healthy sexual thoughts are induced with the help of the female libido enhancement drugs, and so is the lubrication and stamina that is required during sexual activity. There are various factors that will cause this disorder with women and the leading ones are medical as well as psychological factors. Most women with highly stressful surroundings and situations will face this problem.

If there are any alterations in the blood flow with the genital areas, then there is most likely a chance to get this disorder. This could be caused by diabetes, hypertension or even cholesterol. If one has gone through surgeries around the pelvic region and other surgeries are also most likely to suffer from this disorder.

Several diseases cause nerve damage, and this will also play a role in causing low libido levels in women.

Check this Blog

5 tips to drive him wild

2010-09-21T10:57:00.002+02:00

1. Underneath your clothes
Men may not notice your new dress, but he will probably remind you years ahead about your stockings, tiny panties and sexy bra, the more so if you put on the most ill-fitted ones. Keep in mind that you may wear the simplest outfit outside the bedroom setting, but you should always wear lingerie you won't be embarrassed to show after you undress.

2. Use your sex muscles
When a man penetrates a woman the last thing he expects to see is her absolute calmness and immovability. Many women would get out of going to the sexologist if only they take advantage of the most powerful tool they have at their disposal-their sex or PC muscle. Nothing can heighten intimate experience more than a woman good at controlling her vagina. Training your PC muscle will help you not only keep your vaginal muscles in tone, but make an amazing revelation of your own sexual skills.

3. Add a bit of strip tease
If you haven't learned the common truth yet, then we need to say it again: men like to watch! They like to devour your breasts, your hips, your butt, your vagina and all your body with his eyes. You can be a nice Nelly, a business woman, a bluestocking outside your bedroom, but you should forget about all your "good girl" manners and free yourself from useless shyness and feed his sexual imagination. Keep in mind that the way you undress is one of the strongest turn-on for a man, otherwise they wouldn't spend their money on strippie and adult movies.

4. Move your body
Nothing can leave your man at a loss as fast as your lifeless body and your indifferent look, almost saying "when will he cum at last". Of course, you shouldn't perform Brazilian dance in order to brighten up the situation. You just need to feel the inner urge to let him penetrate you most intimate part and that close connection between two of you. When you move your body synchronized with his own, you help him find the right angle and the right rhythm.

5. Learn his body
Don't try to reduce sex to moth-eaten practices. If you are used to be passive side in your love play, swap over and explore his body in full. While men seem to be more concentrated on their genitals, you give him a possibility to discover new hot areas he may not be aware of.

6. Take the initiative
99 % of men dream about a woman taking the initiative, the rest 1% is probably too shy to admit it. What could be more appealing to a man, than a woman who is smart enough to do the "work" themselves and let her partner derive the utmost satisfaction? It can be quite hard for him to always prove his masculinity and be "Mr. Hero" who drives you to the high of sexual ecstasy. That surely doesn't mean you should be somewhat pushy or aggressive, you just need to know that sometimes men need to feel they are being "guided".

Some interesting facts on breasts

2009-07-18T14:58:00.001+02:00

1. Our long-time fascination with breasts has leaded some to argue that the restriction of access creates a commodity, hence creating a market for the pornography industry and topless bars.
2. As in the drug war, are we merely driving prices up and making the business more lucrative for those willing to deal in this high stakes market by preventing our breasts from being bared?
3. Breasts are often a source of conflicting emotions for women. Our personal body experiences are rarely reflected in media images we see.
4. A woman may feel ashamed, proud, annoyed, and sexual about her breasts in the course of one menstrual cycle, or even a single moment.
5. Almost every woman has a bra story to tell. Some are traumatic, others joyful.
6. A first bra is one of our culture's rites of passage for women, yet it's often a secret, mumbled between teenaged girls and their mothers in store dressing rooms.

Interesting articles

2009-07-16T19:31:00.002+02:00

Follow the links for some interesting articles:

Tips for online writing

Tips for buying a used vehicle

Be a responsible driver

Enjoy!!!!

Oral Sex?

2008-06-17T14:20:00.002+02:00

Ma and Pa are sitting on the front porch swing, rocking. Pa says to Ma, "Screw you Ma."

A minute goes by, and Ma says to Pa, "Screw you Pa."

Again, a minute goes by, and Pa says to Ma, "Screw you Ma."

Another minute goes by, and Ma says to Pa, "Screw you Pa."

Yet another minute goes by, and Pa says to Ma, "Screw you Ma."

A minute later, Ma says to Pa, "Screw you Pa."

A couple of minutes go by, and Pa says to Ma, "I don't know about you Ma, but I just don't get too much out of this oral sex stuff!"

Beautiful Women

Erotic Couple

Nip Slip!

2008-06-16T18:41:00.002+02:00

Sexy woman!

2008-06-15T16:25:00.004+02:00

Erotic diary

Beautiful women

Innocent Beauty!!!

2008-06-14T16:48:00.001+02:00

She's BEAUTIFUL

Sex Tip #4

2008-04-28T18:28:00.001+02:00

Have an erotic escapade. Enjoy sex under a blanket in the park.

Sex Tip #3

2008-04-27T18:48:00.001+02:00

Surprise her with her favorite flowers on the nightstand. Set the scene for sex.

Sex Tip #2

2008-04-26T16:52:00.001+02:00

Learn to have fun with sex toys . Keep your titillating playthings in a sex tool box beside the bed; super soft, sensual, and slippery lubricants, a silk blindfold, fuzzy handcuffs, various vibrators, incense, scented candles and your favorite make-out music CD. Your voice is also a versatile sex toy. It can seduce, soothe, control and keep your partner excited all the way to orgasm.

Sexy Tip #1

2008-04-25T22:03:00.001+02:00

Whisper sexy words to your lover. When a move he makes, the way he kisses you, how fast or slow he's going, makes you feel good, tell him. Whisper, "You feel so good inside me," or "Moving like that drives me craaazzzy!" when his rhythm starts to send you over the edge, or "Your tongue rules!" when he reaches the right spot. If he's thrusting too soft, don't hesitate to throw out a "Harder! Harder!" Guide him with your words: "Your tongue feels great, ummm, good, right there!"

Beauty of the Day

2008-04-23T18:37:00.002+02:00

Beauty of the Day

2008-04-22T18:56:00.003+02:00

Sex Signals

2008-04-20T17:03:00.001+02:00

You and your partner wake up, go to work, come home, deal with dinner, wrangle kids, do laundry, and go to bed. And maybe you make a move. But if this is the first signal you've given all day, it may be no surprise that your partner isn't in the mood.

If you'd like to make love, start sending signals a day or two ahead of time. You know your partner best, so you know what signals are likely to be well received. Some ideas:
-- Offer a more-passionate-than-usual goodbye kiss in the morning.
-- Taking on an extra household chore so your partner can sleep in 15 more minutes.
-- Send a passionate e-mail in the middle of the workday.
-- Make his or her favourite dinner.
-- Offer genuine appreciation for something your partner does around the house.
-- Set a scene in the bedroom -- pick up the socks on the floor, light some candles, put on some soft music.
-- Compliment your partner's looks.
-- Wear something your partner likes.

Sensual Toys

2008-04-18T19:03:00.002+02:00

You played with toys when you were young. Why change now that you’re all grown up?

Sex toys can put the fun back into a relationship and can be used to expand and enrich your sex life. Toys can be used with a partner or on your own, but remember sex toys are never a substitute for the real thing.

Many people find the subject of introducing sex toys intimidating. Even couples with the best communication skills often find it difficult to discuss sex:

You know your relationship best. If your partner is someone you feel comfortable enough with to just surprise them one evening then go for it.

Whisper the idea in your partner's ear during your next sexual encounter.

Confess that you've fantasized about them using a vibrator on you.

Get your partner involved in the process. Shop for a vibe together. It gives you an excellent opportunity to describe the ways you'd like to use toys.

Go on-line and begin exploring the world of sex toys one evening over a glass of wine.

Communicating your sexual desires not only brings you more sexual satisfaction but can also deepen your relationship as a whole. It can bring you both to a new level of intimacy that you can explore together. Adding a toy to your sexual repertoire should be fun.

How to Use a Vibrator

2008-04-16T19:38:00.001+02:00

There are many different kinds of vibrators which can be used for massage or sexual pleasure. They come in different sizes, shapes and materials and can be remote-control, clitoral, G-spot or even waterproof. They can be battery-powered or use an electrical outlet. For women a vibrator might make the difference between having orgasms or not. About 60 percent of the female population doesn't reach an orgasm with penetration alone.

Step 1:
Use a vibrator and learn your sexual likes and dislikes. It is a good idea to set the mood with relaxing music and an erotic atmosphere. Remember to relax and breathe deeply.

Step 2:
Start by using a traditional or “rocket vibrator." Select the width and length. If you know that having two fingers inside you feels about right, then the vibrator should be between an inch and an inch and a half in diameter.

Step 3:
Choose the shape. If you want it to resemble a human penis, then there are plenty to choose from. This isn't necessary though. Trial and error is way to go. Pick something with a curve if you like pressure against the front wall of your vagina.

Step 4:
Start slow and build up the speed and pressure if the vibrations are not intense enough. Employ it through panties or sheets if the vibrations are a little too intense for you. If you want to go for multiple clitoral orgasms, then after the first one, lower the pressure while keeping the vibrator moving. A vibrator orgasm is much more intense and it's common for women to have multiple orgasms.

Step 5:
Stimulate the G-spot. This is on the front wall of the vagina about two to three inches in. A G-Spot orgasm feels very different to a clitoral orgasm. It is a good idea to empty your bladder first, or it might not be so pleasurable!

Step 6:
Move your hips while using your vibrator. This is something else that can enhance the whole experience.

Step 7:
Attach a nipple vibrator to the nipples with clamps. The operation is very easy. Just clamp on each nipple--and then turn on. You can pull on them or use the vibrator at different speeds to stimulate the nipple area.

Step 8:
Vibrate and enhance oral sex by using it on the genitals while oral stimulation is being performed. Also, have one partner use the vibrator for masturbation while giving oral stimulation to the other partner.

Acknowledgement eHow

It just happened

2008-04-14T18:55:00.002+02:00

She looked stunning, as usual, in her clingy sun dress. Even after a couple kids she has maintained a tremendous body. She did not wear a bra or panties which were obvious to everyone and it were driving the guys crazy and she was the centre of attention all night long. It did not take long for the hunk of the party to chat her up and she led him up the stairs into the bathroom.

In a daze I followed and watched! They were all over each over. In a wink of an eye both were butt naked.

Then it happened. She took him in her mouth – that beautiful and sexy mouth of hers. His cock looked huge and I could only see the small amount she could not get in her mouth. She was sucking and she reached up and stroked him. He was fidgeting and I could tell he was getting close to filling her mouth with his cum. He then said he was going to cum and I could see his cock twitching and unloading into her mouth. I could not look anymore – I mean what would you have done if it was your wife?

The Tease

2008-04-09T18:40:00.001+02:00

Naked cool skin
lying on white sheets.

Hardened nipples
brushing against pillows.

Large hands
smoothing warm oil.

Long strokes
spreading slippery warmth.

Warm wetness
dripping over your pussy.

Smooth palms
sliding across your thigh.

Strong fingers
parting legs bathed in oil.

Hard maleness
sliding slowly inside.

By Sabine Maurier

Thinking

2008-04-05T20:29:00.001+02:00

It is your flesh I ponder, the sharp angle of the muscle from the knee melting into the fleshy part of the thigh just below your sex. As you lie half awake, half asleep, I admire this part of you and quietly find my way between your thighs. You moan, but it is not a moaning of sensual pleasures, but that of being bothered in the night. I wait until you sleep again then continue to study your thighs and the quiet, lifeless penis before me.

I lick and press my mouth against your flesh, knowing that the warmth of my tongue and lips will awaken you. As I lick, I find your penis waking up, first and then your body as you shift drowsily. It is now that I take your penis in, take it in the state of soft discovery and you moan again, raise your head and sigh, somewhat taken aback to see me down below.

You touch my head, gently playing with the soft strands of blonde hair that you can reach. Perhaps you remember that we've made love twice this night in languid, long sessions of playful give and take. I have worn you out, you protest. I am not tired.

In my mouth, you respond and, of course, I took you in the night, pulled myself up to the top of your torso, knowing that it wouldn't be long before you exploded. I placed my lips on yours and pleased myself, engulfing your penis. I watched your face contort in the pleasure of being quietly ravished.

We have never spent the night together without one of us leaving before the other awakens. I am afraid for this new way, as it seems it will be the end of us.

Is masturbation good for me?

2008-04-02T19:01:00.001+02:00

For many years people believed masturbation was bad – it's not. The only harm it can do is to feel guilty about it. Point is, it's actually good for you, because:

It keeps the sperm supply healthy by getting your body to keep on producing fresh sperm;
It helps you to get to know your own sexual responses;
It helps you to learn to postpone ejaculation and get more powerful climaxes

Cum With Me

2008-03-31T19:00:00.002+02:00

Take my hand Baby,
And smile like you mean it

Kiss my lips Baby,
Tongue me like you need it.

Touch me all over,
A breast in each hand

My knees go weak,
I can barely stand.

Lay me down,
Your tongue on my nipple

And all through my body,
An almighty ripple.

Spread my legs,
You finger my clit

My body jerks sharply,
An orgasmic fit!

Enter your fingers,
One by one

I lustily pant,
You smile, I cum.

Returning the favour,
I reach for your cock

I feel you all over,
You’re as hard as a rock!

I lower my head,
And suck on your balls

Wanna play like a whore,
Wanna break all the rules.

I flitter my tongue,
Give you butterfly kisses

I hear every moan,
And feel every shiver.

Fuck my mouth,
In and out like the tide

I climb on top,
Lets go for a ride.

You slip into my cunt,
I’m as easy as hell

You smile again,
You’re loving your girl.

Your hands reach out,
You grope for my hips

You pull me towards you,
And suck on my tits.

Clamping me down,
You thrust harder and faster

I squeal with delight,
Baby you are my master.

Screaming and panting,
We’re both almost done

You explode with a groan
And together we cum

The air is thick
With that heavy sex scent

Together we lie,
Exhausted and spent.

XXX

I love you.

By Kelly Arthur

Better Sex Tips for Women

2008-03-30T16:47:00.001+02:00

A good amount of pleasurable sexual act is undeniably one of the most important components which help to build and maintain a successful and rewarding relationship. In most cases, good sex speaks louder than words when it comes down to love and intimacy between both partners.

Both partners are equally responsible for giving the others a total sexual pleasure. It is very easy sometimes for a woman to think it is her man's responsibility to give her sexual pleasure and to make her come. From time to time, certain women would also have the idea that they should not be too wild in bed, as this might give their partner a sense of insecurity! This is a total myth and one which should be addressed immediately if she ever hopes to have a totally satisfying relationship!

Women sure can be charming by the way they present themselves and also by the way they dress up. But, men like women who are also great in bed. Men like women who take the initiative and are confident in their sexual act. Men like women who give them complete pleasure and satisfaction at the end of the sexual act and they themselves should feel satisfied with their partners.

It is often said that only when women have 7 times the pleasure as men that women can reach an orgasm. This is totally wrong! The truth is, a woman can have no orgasm but that does not mean she is not satisfied with the sexual experience. At the same time, a woman may have multiple orgasms. The ultimate aim for a woman would be to satisfy her partner and herself.

A woman should devise new ways to excite her man in the beginning and get him involved completely in the sexual act. She can also gift herself or her man sex videos. This is certainly going to turn both of them on. Sex videos are a great resource to learn the finer and more beautiful nuances of sex. Videos also help you learn different better sex positions so that sex does not become a monotonous act.

A better sex tips for women would be to get stimulated in the beginning. Performing sex just for the sake of doing it won’t bring in any enthusiasm and pleasure. The most important part is to be you throughout the whole sexual act.

Women should be as flexible as possible in the whole sexual experience. Try out different things to excite your partner. Like, tying a handkerchief around his eyes and then slowly running your fingers on his body or, you can write erotic stories and then narrate them to your partner in order to stimulate him and respond to your demands.

Communication, both verbal and sexual is another important aspect which helps to improve your love life. Tell your partner how comfortable you feel in his arms and thank him for the great sexual experience. Tell him that you would like to take the fantastic journey as much as you can. This is sure going to build a stronger sexual bond between you and your partner.

You can also create an environment to excite your partner like lighting candles in the room, keeping the room dark, playing soft love songs which you both enjoy and so on.

At the end of the day, it is a matter of communication, both verbal and sexual, finding your respective hot buttons which is going to make your relationship works. Be selfless and live for the moment for each other.

By Leah Holden

Foreplay: How to Stimulate a Woman

2008-03-28T19:40:00.000+02:00

The small of a woman’s back – the small of her back is very sensitive and has many pressure points where many women carry stress. If you gently massage this area it will feel wonderful to her. She will delight as you gently kiss her throughout the massage of this area.

A woman’s soft spots – now a woman has several areas that are sensitive that you may not have considered but if you find them, she will love you even more:

Behind her knees
Inside of her arms
Inner thighs
Hollow of her neck
Gentle stocking of these areas as well as light kisses are very pleasurable to the woman. Remember also, that gentleness is the key with women.

A woman’s buttocks – grab those cheeks in your hands, squeeze them, and play with them. This releases stress and leaves the woman with the thought that you are making your way to more erogenous zones.

A woman’s G-spot – This area is known to give a woman the most intense pleasure. For a woman, orgasms can have different feelings depending on where they are located and this one is great. The location of the G-spot is mid-way between her cervix and pubic bone. If you insert a finger or two, palm up in her vagina and use a 'come here' motion to stimulate it. During intercourse, the best position to stimulate the G-spot is with the woman on her back. For bonus points, try giving her a "blended orgasm" by aiming for both her G-spot and her clitoris at once. Rear-entry position is best for this.

KissMeGoodnight.com

Erotic Objectification

2008-03-26T20:52:00.001+02:00

There’s nothing like being lusted after. While sexual objectification can be a terrible thing when it is unwanted and intrusive, knowing that the mere sight or touch of our body can drive our partners to lusty distraction can be an enormous aphrodisiac (and a great ego boost).

Keeping your sex life lively and exploratory sometimes means turning that same sort of objectifying gaze on our partner and exploring not only the things that have always turned us on about their bodies, but finding new nooks and crannies of delicious territory to explore.

This sex tip asks you to embrace just this kind of sexual objectification.

Step one is to make a mental list of your favourite parts of your lover’s body. Start at the head and go right down the body to the toes. You’re going to use this list at a later date, but for now keep it to yourself.

Once you’ve come up with a few golden spots, choose an area of their body you don’t normally gravitate to. Maybe it’s the back of the legs, or under the arms, or the tips of the fingers. Maybe it’s the small of the back, or behind the ears. Wherever it is, this week make time to explore that part of your lover’s body.

You might offer to do some extra work around the house one night so they can have time for a nice long hot bath. Once they are relaxed and feeling good, take at least twenty minutes to explore your new unchartered territory. This might lead to more sex, or it could end up as a massage, or a cuddle. Approach it like something between a treasure hunt and a science experiment. You’re not only looking for areas that will make them feel good, you’re discovering the details that we sometimes miss in our rush to make sex fit into our busy lives.

Have fun!

By Cory Silverberg

Better Sex Tips for Women

2008-03-23T20:29:00.003+02:00

Erotic Diary

I Remember

2008-03-19T17:14:00.003+02:00

At the time I was 32 and she was 20. Our first few times together were tame to say the least. After about two weeks were talking on the phone when the subject of sex came up. I indicated to her that it had been almost 7 months for me, to which she was astonished and appalled. She insisted that we remedy as soon as possible. We planned to meet for lunch the next day. My house was only 5 minutes from my office. I led her upstairs to my bedroom where she pressed against me and gave me a deep kiss. Wasting no time she proceeded to sit on the edge of my bed and undo my belt and pants. She kissed my stomach and worked her way down to my now rock hard tool. Taking me in her mouth slowly it was truly wonderful, having never before been treated to a BJ while standing.

As good as this was after a few minutes she suggested I lay down on the bed. She continued to suck me now resting on her hands and knees at my side. At this point I couldn't keep from touching her running my hands between her legs and then insisting she remove her jeans. At first she resisted doing this, but it didn't take another minute or two of stroking though to get her to comply. My fingers now got to enter her and tease her clit as she continued sucking me hard. As good as she was and as long as it had been, she still didn't have the experience to take me all the way to orgasm giving me head. So I told her I wanted to fuck her, to which she instantly rolled to her back. Once I got inside her I started pumping her with the six plus months of pent up sexual frustration that was in me. She started screaming, "Oh fuck yes, oh fuck YES!!" over and over to which I responded with even more of the same. When I came, I came hard and was even surprised how long it had taken me to cum, considering how long it had been.

At this point she really surprised and pleased me immensely when she had me roll to my back and starting sucking on me again. My cock quickly stiffened again to full erection and my stomach quivered uncontrollably as I enjoyed the sensation of nerve endings that were now completely stimulated. Finally I had to return to work in a haze of savouring what had just happened. The relationship lasted only a few more weeks which were both educational and enjoyable.

Sexy Maxi

Erotic Couple

Afternoon Affair

2008-03-16T18:31:00.002+02:00

I stood before you naked, hungrily waiting for you to enter the room. You wasted no time in making me swoon by scooping me into your right arm and taking your left hand to fondle my breasts as you parted my lips to insert your tongue into my mouth. You were already hard as rock. You picked me up and carried me to the bedroom and threw me on the bed and undid your pants while I watched.

Flicking my tongue over the head of your swollen member caused you to arch shoving it further into my mouth. My love box started thumping and releasing my sweet juices. Grabbing my hair you pulled my head back as I whimpered in protest. I looked up to see you smile down at me "Have you been missing my cock Baby?" I tried to take it back into my mouth but you pulled my head back again "Oh no baby begs for it." I never knew how wet I could get by such words. "Please baby let me suck it! I want to suck your cock so bad! Let me suck it for you baby please!" "How much you love my cock baby? Tell me how much you love sucking my cock slut!" "I love your cock baby I do! I love sucking your cock when it's so hard and waiting for me. Please baby let me have it!"

Shoving my face back down in your groin area was all I needed to take your cock back into my mouth. I love being made to beg for it and you love being able to control me. After a few minutes of sucking your cock you decided it was time to move on "Let me taste that sexy hole of yours baby." Lying back on to the bed I spread my legs as wide for you as I could while you removed your pants the rest of the way. Crawling between my legs you begin to tease with your tongue by licking my inner thigh. I whimpered with excitement and pleasure. Before you got to my wet box you teased more. Taking your hand you rubbed my clit slowly "Does my baby want her pussy licked?" "Uh huh." Who is it you want the entire time baby?" "Oh God you baby!”Is that right? "Tell me who's little slut you are Baby? Who controls you Baby? Who makes you feel good Baby? Who?" “You do Baby you and only you!" With that sexy smile of yours you dip your fingers into my honey pot fucking me with them and licking on my pussy lips.

I arch my back and groan with pleasure. With the precision of an expert, that we both know you are, your tongue found my clit and licked it with a mission in mind while finger fucking my wet, throbbing snatch. I exploded arching upwards as a huge orgasm swept through me and all over your tongue while you lapped up the sweet juices I was releasing. I collapsed back down onto the bed sighing in relief. "Feel better baby?" "Oh yeah." I'm in control here and I'm going to bang that pussy with my cock until you beg me to quit!" "I'll never beg you to quit!" I rose up onto my hands and knees as you slid your overly swollen cock into my pussy. The feeling of having you inside me was wonderful "God baby I've missed you." I rocked back and forth on your cock as passion over took me. "That's my girl fuck me good!" I looked into the mirror in the headboard of the bed your back was arched and your eyes were closed and you were moaning so sexily it caused me to rock faster.

"Baby you are so sexy! You smiled at me and reached under to play with my clit again. "Just worry about fucking me now baby. Make my cock feel good!" I rocked harder back and forth feeling my wet box sliding up and down on your cock as we both moaned when I told you I was going to cum again you quit playing with my clit and pulled out of me. "Not yet slut!” Oh no Baby, I'm in control here, remember? Turn over!" I turned over and spread my legs for you once again as you slid into me with ease. "Damn baby your pussy is wet. Who's your man baby who is YOUR BEST FUCK?" "You are baby! Raising my legs above your shoulders you shoved your cock deep within my too wet love hole and banged it with everything you had I came again all over your cock screaming in ecstasy! You pulled your cock out of my pussy jerking it "Come up here and get your reward!"

I quickly flipped onto my hands and knees and took your heated cock into my mouth and swallowed every last drop you squirted out just for me, listening to you moan and groan letting me know you have been successfully sexually full-filled. You lifted me up to wrap your arms around me kissing me passionately. We collapsed back onto the bed snuggling for a few minutes to catch our breath. While you were dressing to leave, I begged for one more time. You kissed me and smiled "Can't now baby I have to get back home but I will be back soon. I pouted and again you kissed me "No pouting. Keep it wet and hot for me Baby and remember who your man is. I promise."

By Suzanne Marie

Erotic Diary

Sexy maxi

Under his spell

2008-03-15T15:49:00.002+02:00

I let my hands begin to wander, first teasing my nipples through my thin cotton t-shirt, making them hard, and then moving down my flat tummy. As his laugh echoed in my mind I let my fingers find the bottom hem of my shirt, pulled it up slowly, imagining it was his. I felt a moan escape my lips and slipped my hand into my panties finding my wet lips covered in thick red pubic hair. I couldn't believe how wet I was, just from the power of his voice, oh and that accent!

Erotic Diary

What I Think About

2008-03-12T21:28:00.004+02:00

When my love life is lean, I often think of an old lover, Matthew, and the impact he had on my sexuality and womanhood.

Matt was completely uninhibited. His body knew my body and he was the one who first told me how hot and wet I get. I've since been told that by many lovers, and still love to hear it.
While I have had many wonderful experiences with Matt, there is one that I have never experienced that I wish I had. While I am 100% straight, I had always had a fantasy of feeling a penis inside me, and a woman's tongue all over my body. I often role-play this exciting scenario when I pleasure myself:

Matt and I are at a bar, flirting, giving each other knowing glances, and thinking about our bodies melding into one later on. I tell Matt about my fantasy, and he thinks it is a great idea, but doesn't think he would ever find someone to join us.

After a while I go into the restroom, and, after waiting in line for a while, I notice a beautiful girl walk in. To my surprise, she walks straight up to me, takes my hand, and says, "Your lover told me of your fantasy, and I'm going to make it come true."

We all leave the bar and go to my apartment. I fix all of us a drink, and then head into the bedroom. I am so hot just thinking about what's going to happen that I begin to touch myself. Matt and our new "friend", Kendra, come into the bedroom and join me. Matt starts to kiss me, and then Kendra. Kendra then leaves him and kisses me softly on the lips. I'm surprised at how good this feels, and responds. All the while, Matt is watching us, stroking his manhood and directing the scene. He tells Kendra how much my breasts love to be licked and She takes each one in my mouth, and starts to stroke them with her warm tongue.

"She likes her body caressed with a tongue," directed Matt.

Immediately, Kendra moves off my breast, and starts sending a love trail down to my sweet womanhood. I can smell her juices and mine, and I'm dying to know what she tastes like. Before she has a chance to taste me, I flip her over and press my mouth between her soft thighs. Her womanhood is wet like mine, soft and sweet.

"You know how you like it. Lick it soft, lick it slow," said Matt, directing me on how to make Kendra feel the ultimate pleasure of my tongue. I follow his advice until Kendra thrashes in my face, shooting her juices into my mouth.

None of us can stand it anymore. Matt lies down on the bed, and Kendra and I begin working him over, loving him, and each other with our hands and tongues. Finally, I climb aboard his shaft, and start pumping him with my warm wetness. Kendra climbs on Matt's face, bends down and begins licking my clitoris while licking Matt's shaft at the same time. I hold out, wanting to feel that tension forever. At last, I explode, MONTHS of tension gone away.

We continue the night in various positions, exploring each other and taking turns getting each other off. Kendra joins us often now, and sometimes, is a stand-in for whenever Matt or I are not in the mood.

I strongly encourage anyone who's comfortable enough with her lover to try this arrangement. It's brought me endless nights of passion and ecstasy.

by Amy Donavan

Erotic

Sexy Maxi

How to increase sexual intimacy through sexual touch

2008-03-10T17:14:00.002+02:00

Take time for touch.
Exploring with touch is a subtle and intimate activity. Make a date to do this when there won’t be many distractions, and when you don’t have to rush off somewhere in half an hour. This is definitely not a “quickie” kind of sex.

Ground yourself.
Think about exploring touch with your partner almost as a kind of meditation. Try to clear your mind before you start this kind of sex. Time it to happen right after you’ve exercised, or done yoga, or just go for a walk beforehand. Even more than other kinds of sex, if you’re distracted both you and your partner will be aware of it, so you want to do your best to feel calm and “grounded”.

Make your partner comfortable.
Start off with a hot bath, give them some time to themselves (if that’s hard to come by in your house), whatever is comforting and relaxing for them. If they are living with physical pain make sure they get into a comfortable position. You don’t have to do this on a bed, although that might be best for some people. You can do it on a mat on the floor, or on a comfortable chair. Use pillows and blankets to get your partner as comfortable as they can be.

Set the mood.
Make the lighting soft, make sure the room temperature is comfortable (not too hot, and not too cold), put on some music that won’t be too distracting (probably avoid music with lyrics). The goal is to create an atmosphere that will take you both to a deeper level of relaxation, but not distract either of you from experiencing what is happening between you.

Erotic Diary

Heat

2008-03-09T15:35:00.002+02:00

It's the middle of the night. I open my eyes briefly and close them again, trying to get back into the cosy warmth of sleep. I feel myself awaken, even as my body strains to pull me back into the softness of the bed and the lull of my dreams.

I feel my lover's hands probing me, touching me, wanting me. I almost think I'm imagining it -- didn't we just fall asleep after three hours of vigorous sex? Does he really want more? As I look at the clock, it says 3:30, but his insistent hands say "Now." I like his insatiability, this wilful display of his lust that I would be foolish to refuse.

I try to move without really moving, arching my back every so slightly to let his fingers enter me deeply. He pushes silently, and I slither closer to him, needing to feel the warmth of his skin against my back. It reminds me of trying to be quiet when I was a kid so my parents wouldn't know I was awake, only now the quiet is my choice. I get off on the silence, hearing only his skin brushing against mine, my hands moving against the sheets as I clutch them even more frantically.

I listen closely to the sound of our breathing, which signals the stepping-stones of our arousal, differentiating one ragged breath from the next, charting our path to orgasm. Every noise seems louder, more focused, more significant, like an old black-and-white movie. This is not the noisy, thrashing, heated, wild sex we usually have; it's not tidier, just more calculated.

Erotic Diary

Make Her Moan with Delight - Learn How to Handle Her Breasts

2008-03-08T16:34:00.002+02:00

If you are lucky enough to get your hands on my breasts please handle them with care.

Handling Breasts Gently:

Take them gently into your hands and remember I have two of them. What you do to one, you must do to the other. Feel free to play with my nipples if you wish. When you touch them they will probably become erect. That’s a good thing because it means I like what you are doing to me.

Sucking and Biting:

Suck on them and listen to me moan. Bite them and I will cry out but don’t be alarmed. I am enjoying myself. I might even tell you to bite harder since I like to be a naughty girl sometimes.

How to know if your girl liked it?

Don’t worry, I’ll tell you if I don’t like how you handle them. Be gentle and you’ll get to enjoy my breasts for the rest of my life.

Check out this new Blog

Sexy Tess

Benefits of watching explicit films with your lover

2008-03-06T19:59:00.001+02:00

1. Enhances sexual communication. When you see it you can talk about it. You can let each other know preferences or boundaries with ease as they come up in the film.
2. It can spice up your sexual repertoire. Seeing other people being creative in bed can give any slow sex life a boost of ideas.
3. Arousal. When you need that extra push the right adult film can do the trick in a few minutes, whereas foreplay alone may take hours.
4. Takes away the feeling that you (or your partner) are a freak. Seeing other people do things can normalize sex for you and your partner. If she sees a fellow woman enjoying analingus, for example, she may not feel badly about wanting to explore it.
5. Entertainment. A good enough reason all by itself.

Self love

2008-03-05T19:38:00.002+02:00

I unbutton my top and watch in the mirror as my breasts fall out, my nipples erect and rosy. I unclip my hair from the twist that holds it and as I do so, my arm lightly brushes the tip of one of my nipples and a tingling sensation goes right through me.

My hair cascades over my shoulders and the light feathery ends stop loosely just above my breasts. I gently rub the palm of my hands around them feeling their plumpness and fullness, my skin soft and warm, silky and smooth, against my cold hands. A more intense feeling comes over me. It feels so nice.

I continue to undress, my hands reaching for the button on my skirt. As I pull my skirt off I feel the warmth between my legs. Curiously my hand reaches down and feels the dampness of my crotch. I pull my panties off and I rub my whole hand around my pussy, my palm and fingers moistening with my juice. Now parting my wet lips I stop on my protruding clit, almost begging to be fondled. I delicately stroke it with the tip of my finger.

I feel hot and I bend down and I sit myself on the floor, spreading my legs a little. I place a finger near to my entrance and feel my juices escaping; my finger lingers there hesitating. Slowly I move my finger a little inside and a little more until my whole finger is taken.

I begin to slowly draw it in and out, each time resting on my swollen clit, sending me spasms of delight that run from the soles of my feet, along my legs and finally to the tips of my nipples. I want more so I insert another finger.

My moaning gets louder. My fingers sticky and wet with my juice, my other hand now concentrates on rubbing my clit as my two fingers move in and out of me. This is driving me wild. I can’t stop. I don’t want to stop. My nipples still ache. I move my fingers out and start playing there as I continue. I bring myself to the brink. I want to stop again, prolong my climax but as my legs begin to tremble, the electrifying heat runs though me, my mind and body lose control as I let go. Orgasm juices flow out, my hand soaking. I lay there caressing my still trembling body, my hands still wet from my cum, totally exhausted.

I drifted off to sleep, deeply satisfied.

Oral sex tips

2008-03-04T20:06:00.001+02:00

When you partner is standing or sitting you can kneel in front of him and slide your tongue along his testicles to the head of his penis, like licking a lollipop.

You can take the head of penis moving your wet lips along while using your hands to stimulate the shaft. You can keep stimulating the head of his penis sliding your lips and lightly teasing the frenulum with your tongue. You may need some practice to move your lips and tongue in sync. When you stimulate the frenulum, apply different pressure on this area and move your tongue as though imitating vibrations.

Do not ignore other areas that are close to his penis: his testicles, perineum (the area between his testes and anus), and anus. This is especially helpful when you get tired but do not want your partner to lose the sensation.

For example, you can lick his balls while stimulating his penis with your hand. It will keep his erection hard and at the same time will make his sensation more acute. Be sure you are delicate enough when stimulating his testicles as they are very sensitive.

Pressing your fingers along the perineum may be also very pleasurable for your partner when you are licking and sucking his penis.

Your partner may get so aroused that he will want you to be more vigorous while stimulating him orally and push you for deeper throating. This can be difficult to do as you gagging reflex may prevent you from taking penis too deep. If you cannot deal with deep throat technique- it's better to tell your partner not to push you forward.

You may try to adjust to deep throat technique by imitating a yawning or simply varying the depth of oral penetration from stimulating the head in a faster pace to long gliding moves along the whole length of the penis. It’s also important to find a comfortable position for oral sex. One of the positions that will be more comfortable for deep throat stimulation is when you lie on you back, with your head tilting down - in this position your mouth and throat are almost in line that will allow deeper penetration.

You also do not need to go all the way with oral sex if you do not want or you get tired. You may help him reach orgasm with more intense stimulation with your hands or switch to the intercourse.

For many women the question of swallowing ejaculate may become a stumble point, while men find this a powerful visual stimulation and extremely arousing experience. If you don't want to swallow his sperm, you can suggest your partner ejaculating on other parts of you body like breasts.

Self-Pleasure Tips for Women ~ Using Your Hands and Fingers

2008-03-03T19:19:00.002+02:00

Our hands and fingertips contain a lot of nerve-endings rendering them very handy (pun intended) for self-pleasure purposes. Therefore, it makes sense to include the use of our hands and fingers as one of the most effective self-pleasure tips for women.

A self-pleasure tip for women using your hands and fingers involves running your hands all over your body. Feel the smoothness and silkiness of your own skin. You may scrape your nails lightly over several places. Massage and caress yourself all over and be aware of how the said parts of your body, as well as your hands and fingers, feel as you do so.

Next self-pleasure tip for women: Venture into your own erogenous zones. Run your fingertips over your neck, your inner thighs, your inner arms, your palms, and finally, your breasts and that triangle between your thighs. Caress your breasts. You may want to do all these while looking at yourself in the mirror. Massage your breasts in a circular motion with the flat side of your palms. Feel the tingling sensation in your palms as you do so. Much like the striptease acts that you see in erotic movies, pull on your nipples and twirl them between your fingers. Notice how at certain points of this motion, there seem to be a single thread connecting the middle of your palms, the middle of your feet, your nipples and your clitoris. This will produce a-wetness between your thighs.

Finally, the final act in your regimen of self-pleasure tips for women: Touch yourself. Discover where your clitoris is. As you well know, your clitoris is the seat of all sexual pleasure. Rub your fingers and the flat of your palms in your most sensitive places. Massage your clitoris. Wet your fingers with your mouth and put your fingers inside you one by one that is, as many of them as you can take in at once. Then, go nuts!

By E.J. Davis

3 Ways to Give a Girlfriend an Orgasm

2008-03-01T10:00:00.001+02:00

The goods news is there are a few ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm. In this article, I will outline a three step plan that you can use to help your achieve it.

Let’s get started...

The first and most important step is to set up the right kind of environment. Unlike men who are ready for sex at any given moment, women need an atmosphere that is conducive to sex. That means a little bit of romance with candles and sensual music.

While you might feel cheesy doing some of this, a sexual atmosphere is incredibly important to turning her on. Once you have her in this atmosphere, talk to her and tell her how much you're attracted to her. Make this a special time for her that prepares for whats to come.

Next you should concentrate on foreplay. I would consider foreplay to be one of the most powerful ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm. Engage your woman in heavy petting and continue to set the mood by confidently talking to her. At first stay away from your genital area, but as the petting progresses, tease her by going there for a few seconds and moving away.

During foreplay, it’s important to develop a build up to the sex part. So teasing can really help the encounter. You can use teasing by touching sensitive areas and moving away. Done right, this will drive her absolutely crazy.

Once foreplay is culminated, you should move on to the third and final step which is oral sex. If you know women, then you know that a lot of them have trouble having an orgasm from the standard penetration sex. So your only shot for giving your girlfriend an orgasm could be from oral sex.

So now that you're down there, what should you do?

Well the most important thing to do is to continue to tease, which means licking around her inner thighs and near her genital area. Every so often start going down on her and then quickly move away. You should keep this up for at least a few minutes. If you do this right, she'll eventually grab your head or make it VERY CLEAR that she wants you to get down to business.

Now that you're at the main event you should try different techniques and see her reaction. Since all women are different it might take a bit of hit-or-miss to see what she actually enjoys. You can tell if she is enjoying by her rapid breathing or jerking motion if you're doing stuff something is right.

Because women and their sexual preferences are different, I cannot give you absolutes about what will work every time. But I can list a few tips that can help you along:

- Use lots of saliva. As I always say..."The wetter, the better"

- Be sure to pay attention to her clitoral area. You can use your finger or your tongue to properly stimulate this area.

- Find her G-Spot. While this could be a whole course unto itself, the G-Spot is incredibly important to creating a powerful orgasm in a woman. You can find the G-Spot by putting your finger inside a girl and feeling along the top of her vaginal area. You'll feel a sponge like texture along the top. If you really want to drive her wild, stimulate this while stimulating her clitoris

- Don't be afraid to try new things. If something doesn't work, move on and test new moves. Eventually you'll come across something that really works.

While there are tons of different ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm, you'll have to keep working at it till you find a move that she REALLY enjoys. Don't be discouraged if it doesn't work at first, just keep trying and practicing new things.

By Scott Patterson

The ultimate treat

2008-02-28T20:07:00.002+02:00

Oral sex can be the best intimate treat you can give to your man to show him your love and trust as well as heighten all his sensations.

Your man can derive pleasure merely from seeing you taking his penis in your mouth but if you really want to make him feel tantalizing sensations there are few tips to help you.

How to begin:

Start with exploring the most sensitive areas. Touch his penis and feel it getting harder. Look at the shaft of the penis it ends with the head called glans. Lick the smooth and moist surface of the glans - it is one of the most sensitive parts of man's penis.

Move one and you will find another area that will be every responsive to your oral strokes - frenulum a small area under the glans penis. Frenulum is very receptive and you will need to pay more attention to this part of the penis. You can bring your men to orgasm only by tapping your tongue against frenulum.

In order to understand your partner's response to your oral treat, find a comfortable position and gently hold his scrotum and move your tongue all along his penis. You partner will respond to your fondling and hint you what feels the best for him.

Once you found his most sensitive zones, you can focus on these areas to bring him tones of unforgettable pleasure. But don't think that you should repeatedly do the same up down motion along the shaft until you both get tired. Use your imagination to enjoy the process as much as your partner does.

Oral sex tips:

When you partner is standing or sitting you can kneel in front of him and slide your tongue along his testicles to the head of his penis, like licking a lollipop.

You can take the head of penis moving your wet lips along while using your hands to stimulate the shaft. You can keep stimulating the head of his penis sliding your lips and lightly teasing the frenulum with your tongue. You may need some practice to move your lips and tongue in sync. When you stimulate the frenulum, apply different pressure on this area and move your tongue as though imitating vibrations.

Do not ignore other areas that are close to his penis: his testicles, perineum (the area between his testes and anus), and anus. This is especially helpful when you get tired but do not want your partner to lose the sensation. For example, you can lick his balls while stimulating his penis with your hand. It will keep his erection hard and at the same time will make his sensation more acute. Be sure you are delicate enough when stimulating his testicles as they are very sensitive.
Pressing your fingers along the perineum may be also very pleasurable for your partner when you are licking and sucking his penis.

Your partner may get so aroused that he will want you to be more vigorous while stimulating him orally and push you for deeper throating. This can be difficult to do as you gagging reflex may prevent you from taking penis too deep. If you cannot deal with deep throat technique- it's better to tell your partner not to push you forward.

You may try to adjust to deep throat technique by imitating a yawning or simply varying the depth of oral penetration from stimulating the head in a faster pace to long gliding moves along the whole length of the penis. It is also important to find a comfortable position for oral sex. One of the positions that will be more comfortable for deep throat stimulation is when you lie on you back, with your head tilting down - in this position your mouth and throat are almost in line that will allow deeper penetration.

You also do not need to go all the way with oral sex if you do not want or you get tired. You may help him reach orgasm with more intense stimulation with your hands or switch to the intercourse.

For many women the question of swallowing ejaculate may become a stumble point, while men find this a powerful visual stimulation and extremely arousing experience. If you don't want to swallow his sperm, you can suggest your partner ejaculating on other parts of you body like breasts.

Choice kissing tips

2008-02-27T16:28:00.002+02:00

Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we can share with a partner, in fact there are times when kissing is more intimate than sex. Kissing brings us closer together than anything else. It expresses our emotional state because it is so intimate.

"Kissing is arousing and enables us to express our feelings so well. It allows us to taste the essence of the other person, their personhood, as well as their bodily secretions. It draws us into that well of our own desire – and the emotions that kissing produces in us can be so profound that we prefer to turn away from our own desires," says sexologist Dr Eve.

Here are a few choice kissing tips:

Touch your mouths gently together and slowly increase the contact and the pressure, but keep your lips soft.
When you begin to tongue kiss, start slowly. Gradually spend more time using your tongue.
Move your tongue in your partner’s mouth slowly. Explore all the surfaces of their mouth, their teeth, gums, palate etc.
Nibble and suck their lips.
In the Tantric literature there is a link reported between the frenulum, the flap of skin that joins the top lip to the gum and the clitoris. You can stimulate this by sucking her top lip.
Be creative in how you kiss, don't always do the same thing.
Try kissing exactly as your partner does, play copycat.
Kiss with lots of loud kissing noises.
Keep your eyes open and maintain eye contact while kissing.
Make different shapes with your tongue, e.g., pointy and sharp or loose and round.
Make your lips vibrate as if you’re making a humming noise.

Remember that your kisses can travel…

By Jonti Searll
Beautiful

Pleasing a Woman with Anal Play

2008-02-26T12:11:00.003+02:00

The anus is an exceptionally sensitive area and a great place for sexual stimulation for women as well as men. However, since the anal region is considered by many a social taboo, most people are not comfortable experimenting with it. Contrary to common belief, majority of women love anal play and penetration and in some cases even orgasm during anal sex.

How to Find Out If She Likes It

You can ask openly – but this is something very few people really do because unfortunately talk about sex is not considered 'cool' in many places – especially by women. Alternatively, you could find out whether she prefers it or not during the lovemaking.

During the foreplay insert your fingers inside the vagina and then slowly caress the perineum that is situated between the vagina and the anus. If she enjoys it and makes no move to remove your hand, you could move further by circling the anus with the forefinger and putting slight pressure at the opening. Many women love the slight pressure tactic as that enhances the sexual pleasure of foreplay.

Proper Lubrication

If she encourages it and moves her body accommodate your new moves, then you could test it further with your penis. Be careful here that hygiene is of paramount importance. It is good if before you indulge in anal sex both partners have taken a thorough bath and are as clean as can be. This is very important as anal play can result in some very serious urinary tract infections otherwise. Use good quality (smooth not ribbed) condoms for anal intercourse.

Keep in mind the anal region is packed with nerves and is at the same time very delicate. Hence, you would need a lot of lubrication, patience and careful manoeuvring. Start with slight pressure while stimulating the other erogenous parts of her body. The trick here is to get her on fire before, so the anal play, which is slightly painful and different, enhances the sexual pleasure.

Starting the Play

When you feel she is ready push slowly into her anus advising her to relax. Go slow and allow her anus to open sufficiently to accommodate your penis. Reach out and stimulate her clitoris while doing this or suck hard onto her nipples, base of her neck or any other place she loves. Love bites at his time enhance the sexual pleasure manifold.

Once you are in, move slowly allowing her to enjoy and get adjusted to the feeling; after a few adjustment moves you could make love the same way you would normally, only try to reach as deep as you can since the pleasure comes from reaching that 'right' spot. Alternate hard and soft moves and use some rough play on her body during that time for best results.

Beautiful women

Top 10 Secret Sex Spots Of a Woman

2008-02-25T12:05:00.002+02:00

There are no secret spots of a woman – or a man as a matter of fact – only undiscovered ones. A woman's best spot of stimulation is her mind, while a man's is sight. You need to keep this in mind before really understanding the psychology of sex for each gender type. A woman gets turned on when her man flirts with her in public, touches her unexpectedly, gives her sudden passionate kisses or rubs against her seemingly by-mistake. In other words, she needs to know she is attractive to you, that you lust for her.

In this background, whichever place you touch while making sex would explode into sexual pleasure because your touch would be magical on her skin. The most common (well known) erogenous zones are the lips, the earlobes, the base of the neck, the underside of her breasts, the nipples, the underarms, the navel part, the inner part of her thighs, the vagina and the clitoris.

This more or less covers the whole body. However, there are a few places you have not thought of looking at yet:
The back side of the neck – turn her over and pin her down with your body to the bed, and then alternate licking, sucking and biting the nape of her neck. Listen to her moans of pleasure to judge which part she likes most.

The lower back just before the twin dimples above the buttocks – this spot is a great stimulating zone for most women. Use your mouth or hands in slow sensual moves across this region. A massage with hot oil and really put things on fire for her.

The inner part of her elbows and knees – the inner side of the body is usually highly sensitive to touch and hence, any kisses, liking, biting is these spots can create magic

The fingers – kissing the fingers slowly and seductively and sucking on each one of them can work out to be a great way of foreplay

The palms – make circular movements on her palms alternate light and heavy pressure with one hand, while the hand circle her nipples, roam over her inner thigh or around her vagina

The middle line of her body – follow the middle line between her breasts to her navel with wet kisses or slow caressing movements of one hand, while the other hand is used on other erogenous zones

The perineum – this is one very neglected, yet extremely powerful tool for firing her up during foreplay. Use your fingers (or mouth) to gentle tease the area between the vagina and the anus

Ankles – this is another neglected spot during sex and foreplay. Lick slowly and suck the ankles while slipping down towards the foot and toes to put her into the right mood

Feet – the underside of the feet, like the palms are great erogenous spots. You could start your lovemaking by giving a slow massage to the foot. This stimulates the sexual surges in the body

Toes – try sucking on each one of them slowly just as you would suck a lollipop. This is a great turn on for some women. Biting teasingly is also a good way of foreplay.

Beautiful Women

Top ten sex tips for men

2008-02-24T10:02:00.002+02:00

Teeth brushed, condom on, socks off? The London Times has revealed a list of top ten sex tips for men.

1. Men aren't irresistible and not all women are desperate for sex. Good lovemaking starts long before you reach the bedroom, so before any date, have a bath. Everyone smells: some women like the smell of male sweat, others don't, but no one likes the smell of stale sweat. Watching steaming movies can help things along.

2. Sexual gymnastics are often distracting. Chopping and changing positions and techniques can make a woman's sexual excitement plummet.

3. Thrusting for hours without climaxing doesn't make you a stud muffin. It does make her numb and sore.

4. Don't assume your partner is comfortable in her own skin. A survey of 3,500 British women, by the bathroom equipment company SHUC, found that one woman in ten feels so embarrassed about her body that she turns the lights out before taking off her clothes. The average woman still spends a lot of time every day beating herself up about her weight and looks. Nakedness increases that vulnerability, so be sensitive to her insecurities and, if you think that your partner looks great, for God's sake tell her.

5. There's more to sex than pushing the right button. Men have discovered that the key to female orgasm is clitoral stimulation, and many now rub the lamp rather than poking around inside it. The upside is that women are climaxing more often but the increase in emphasis on genital manipulation has made for some very mechanical sex. Going straight to the erogenous zones is the equivalent of fast forward. Men who focus on left breast, right breast, genitals, reduce their partner to a set of body parts.

6. Be polite. Never nudge your partner's head towards your nether regions. During fellatio don't thrust into your partner's mouth, don't hold the side of her head - and definitely warn her when you think you are going to come. With regard to orgasm, always operate a ladies-first policy.

7. Make certain that your partner knows how attractive you find her by paying as much attention to kissing her, complimenting her and generally spoiling her. Don't neglect the breasts and other erogenous zones.

8. Though clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve, most women want to experience penetrative orgasm. Intercourse is the ultimate connection between man and woman and the sensation of fullness that it creates is intensely pleasurable.

9. Women are slow burners. They take longer to become aroused and get as much pleasure, if not more, out of tenderness, kissing and cuddling. Though quickie sex has its place, for women on the whole, the longer sex takes, the better it feels. If arousal is allowed to build gradually, it floods the whole body rather than being confined to the genital area and a delayed orgasm is infinitely more powerful than an orgasm induced by five minutes of digital manipulation.

10. Put a little X in your sex. Watching steamy movies with your partner will increase the chance of some how's-your-father.

Source: Times Online

Beautiful women

Sexy women

Lovely women

Is oral sex really sex?

2008-02-23T12:57:00.002+02:00

It depends on your definition of sex. If you think all real sex is penetrative, then you would answer no to the above question. But if you think of it as mutual stimulation to the point of orgasm, you would probably say yes.

Many teenagers practise oral or non-vaginal sex as there is a general belief that it is safer or simply not the same as having sex. What contributes to this is peoples’ perception that loss of virginity happens with their first experience of penetrative sex. One also cannot become pregnant from having oral sex, which is what makes it particularly attractive to many youngsters who are hesitant to go to a family planning clinic or buy contraceptives elsewhere. No tell-tale packets of pills or condoms can be found by snooping parents or siblings, which for many teenagers from conservative homes is a considerable worry.

The long and the tall and the short of this is that people should be just as careful choosing a partner for oral sex as they would for normal sexual intercourse.

Sexy women

Beautiful women

Lovely women

Shapes

2008-02-22T16:50:00.001+02:00

I understand why men adore breasts. The softness and squish. The toy-like element urging one to play with warm, scented globes prone to jiggle and peek out at will. The shape of them, so individual yet always somehow round, is primal and sexy. Breasts are just the right shape to snuggle into a large, calloused male palm or nuzzle into the wet heat of an appreciate mouth. I feel the same way about men’s arms. The tactile quality of the skin, that special male heat and strength beneath my fingers as I lean against one, cushioning it between my breasts…

Beautiful women

Sexy women

Holiday

2008-02-21T12:08:00.001+02:00

Dancing shadows
Crimson sunsets
Tepid water
Swaying palms

Soft velvet touches
Whispered wicked confessions
Warm passionate kisses
Close tender embraces

Frantic emboldened carefree licking
Strong ruthless ardent groping
Tumultuous disorderly riotous romping
Fanatical zealous obsessive fucking

Sweet loving stroking
Breathless devoted words
Adoring yielding nuzzling
Romantic reaffirming vowels

Moonlit nights
Balmy breeze
Azure seas
Endless beaches

Holding hands and strolling forever.
The holiday of a lifetime.

By Jane Oldes

A guide to great kissing

2008-02-20T12:18:00.002+02:00

Knowing when to kiss for the first time:

1. Break the ice by greeting your date with a kiss on the cheek. When it comes to the time for the "real" kiss you will both be much more relaxed.
2. Touch your partner throughout the evening. Don't hold the touch too long, however. Use your judgment.
3. Wait for the moment to present itself.
4. Look for cues from body language. Is your partner moving into you?

Step-by-step:

1. Tilt head, close eyes (enhances the sensation of the kiss)
2. Kiss lightly with soft lips and a slightly open mouth.
3. Savour the smell.
4. Gently move your whole body toward your partner, if he/she is responding, press your chest towards him/her, then your waist and finally move your hips.
5. Feel your partner's rhythm, match it.

Tongue:

1. Gently move the tongue in, exploring the inside of the lips, move in a little more paying attention to your partner's motions and rhythms.
2. Take turns exploring each others' mouths.
3. Play with the tongue.

Kissing do's and don'ts:

1. Don't slobber - The amount of moisture should remain the same as your normal state.
2. Don't tense up your lips - allow your lips to relax, not sloppy, but loose.
3. Do Tease - be gentle at first. Give your partner a chance to come after your lips, want your lips.
4. Use all your senses to make love with your mouth.
5. Be aware of your oral hygiene. Smell and taste can be the most potent of aphrodisiacs (or turn-offs).
5. Don't press your lips too much into your lover's lips. Squashing your lover's lips is not passionate; it just hurts and makes it difficult for them to respond.

Tips to make it special

1. Ear nibbling - lightly little nibbles, alternating with light sucking of the lobe is an effective technique.
2. Cherish the bottom lip. Gently suck the lower lip between your lips for a second before you let it go. Even nibble gently.
3. Use your hands. Hold the face, caress hair, slide your hand down the back. Each one will enhance the kiss that much more.
4. Enhance the senses - Connect your lips and then don't move. A kiss that will build your anticipation for everything else as it builds intimacy.
5. Be creative - Develop you own special kissing style. Don't stick to one thing. Explore, enjoy the senses.
6. Get into it. Your lover will be able to feel your involvement. Enjoy your senses.
7. Allow the tongue to dance together, teasing it, melding with it, moving together, and apart. Let your lover take the lead once in a while. Allow his/her tongue to set the tone, follow it where it goes.
8. Lightly lick the neck, use your soft hot breath to linger over the ear.
Move your soft lips down the neck to the very sensitive area where the hairline stops. Lick and nibble.
9. Use chocolate, honey, mint candy or wine to make your lips taste sweet or pass it between you to share the flavour and enhance the senses.

Acknowledgement Health 24.co.za

Beautiful women

Sensual Ways of Pleasing Your Body with Your Body

2008-02-19T16:10:00.002+02:00

My journey into sexuality began at the age of nine. I woke up one morning with raging hormones because I suddenly had breasts that were too big for me to handle. I had a new found sexual energy and no way to release it. One night I was lying in my bed and I felt the urge to touch myself. I remember touching my labia, realizing that it felt really, really good. It felt so good, in fact, that I put a finger, and then two, inside my vagina.

Growing up, at our house, however, meant keeping anything related to sex behind closed doors. I wasn’t allowed to sleep naked, or minus my underwear, so masturbation was certainly forbidden. I never let that stop me even after my parents found out about my “dirty little secret.” I’m not sure what my mom and dad expected me to do at such a young age. I couldn’t have sex; I didn’t even know what it was until the age of twelve. I don’t remember when I had my first orgasm but I can tell you that I liked it.

Move ahead 25 years to the here and now. As an adult I still masturbate at least two or three times a week. I make love to my husband and I make sure I am satisfied before I roll over and go to sleep. I don’t typically have an orgasm during intercourse so when he and I are finished he puts his fingers inside my vagina and I stimulate my clitoris.

Sometimes I masturbate and it has nothing to do with intercourse. Writing about sex gets me going and sometimes I feel the need to release what has built up inside me. If I am alone I disappear into my bedroom and come out in a few minutes a much happier woman!

Relaxing with Self Pleasure

Masturbation is a wonderful way to relieve stress and tension. Having an orgasm releases certain pleasure hormones that calm and relax you. It can also enhance your sex life, especially if you and your partner do it together. If you relax and enjoy yourself masturbation is a lot of fun.

If you’ve been masturbating for years try spicing it up a little bit, with a lubricant, or toys such as a vibrator or a dildo. If you’ve never masturbated but you are curious here is my advice:

Get to Know Your Body

Grab a mirror and check out your girlie parts. Look closely and you’ll notice you have two lips that you need to separate in order to find your clitoris and your vagina. These two lips are called your labia. The round ball above your labia is your clitoris. Get to know her because she will bring you an immense amount of pleasure! I shouldn’t have to tell you what your vagina looks like, that one should be obvious.

Getting into the Naughty Mood

Once you’re ready to masturbate go into your bedroom and set the mood as though you are planning on having sex. Turn down the lights, turn up the soft music and light a candle or two. It might sound silly but it’s just you and you have nothing to be ashamed of. Prop your elbows up on a pillow or two if you’d like but more than anything just relax and be comfortable.

Touch Yourself and Find Your Sensitive Parts

Start by exploring your body and getting to know it. Touch yourself from head to toe leaving no part of your body untouched. Take note of what you enjoy and what you don’t. Touch yourself in places you might not have thought of about such as the backs of your knees, and your underarms. You’ll very quickly discover what turns you on.

Getting into the Act

Slowly and gently move your hands down between your legs and stroke your inner thighs. Next touch your clitoris. Touch it gently at first and then increase your speed until you find out what stimulates you the most. With one hand separate your labia to reveal your entire clitoris and your vagina. With your other hand lubricate yourself with the fluid from your body or the lubricant from the bottle.

Clitoral Stimulation

Tap your clitoris with your finger. Tap it faster and faster until you feel as though you might explode. This is a good thing! Once you are aroused and lubricated, slip a finger, or two, inside your vagina. Stimulate your clitoris as you thrust your fingers inside your vagina. Both types of stimulation can create quite the sensation inside your body!

Regardless of how you masturbate take time to be good to yourself. This is your time and you are the only person you need to worry about. Do what feels right and don’t worry about having an orgasm.

Enjoy the stimulation you provide yourself!

Beautiful women

Sensual Love

2008-02-18T16:49:00.004+02:00

Staring out the window

She wraps herself in linens

Emerging from the shadows

Her lover hungry for her taste

The haze of dusk settling

The world becomes quiet

The tides are sluggish now

The birds nestling down

Warm breezes fill the room

Scented candles illuminate

She swirls her glass of wine

No thoughts, no worries, just time

Her lover behind her now

Gentle hands upon her hips

Pulling her in to him

Lips pressed firmly on her nape

His hands descend down between her thighs

Fingertips dragging closer

She quivers at his touch

Her body so fragile and so vulnerable

His determination is unmoving

A desire to bring ecstasy

To a woman that he loves

Until exhaustion hits

They make unyielding,

Passionate and sensual love

Anon

Learn how to fantasise

2008-02-17T18:01:00.002+02:00

Many of us tend too feel shy about having sexual fantasies, or even guilty. But the experts say that a vibrant fantasy life is an important element of healthy sexuality, and should be encouraged in people who’ve suppressed it or simply haven’t had many fantasies before.

Some people complain that they ‘have no imagination’, but in fact that’s not true. If you’ve ever thought about what you’d like for lunch, or pictured a dream holiday destination, then you’ve used your imagination. Similarly, if you’ve ever looked forward to sex, or wondered what a favourite film star looked like naked, then you’ve had a sexual fantasy. So the basics are there for everyone. But if you’d like to make your erotic fantasies more elaborate and potent, so that they really add an extra dimension to your sexual experience, then you might need to exercise that mental facility a little. Here are some ideas that might help:

Take some time to think about what really turns you on sexually. Don’t stop at physical attributes; think about settings too, whether it’s a passionate clinch before a fire on a rainy night, or outside in a meadow or on the beach. Think about previous sexual encounters, and what aspects made them special, then incorporate those elements into your fantasies and expand on them or make them more exaggerated or vivid. You’re the director of your own movie here, and anything goes. Even better than a movie, you can bring all the senses into play: don’t forget about how the sound of someone’s voice, or certain scents or textures, have erotic power.

If you find you’re a bit lacking in material, then why not tap into other people’s fantasies and select what appeals to you. The most common male fantasies include: having sex with an existing partner, giving and receiving oral sex, having sex with more than one person, being dominant, being passive and submissive, reliving a previous erotic experience, watching others have sex, trying new sexual positions. The most common female fantasies include: having sex with an existing partner, giving and receiving oral sex, having sex with a new partner, romantic or exotic locations, doing something forbidden, being submissive, reliving a previous experience, being found irresistible, trying new sexual positions.

You could also try erotic books, magazines, art and movies for inspiration. Even those that aren’t explicitly erotic may serve to turn you on: some people find sweet old-fashioned love stories do it for them; others get excited by action movies.

Practise fantasizing sexually
A good way to start is on your own with a few simple relaxation exercises. Choose a quiet time when you won’t be disturbed, and relax each part of your body, breathing slowly and deeply. Be aware of each part of your body, especially the erogenous zones. Then start to play the ‘movie’ you’ve been developing in your mind, and see where it takes you. Some people just enjoy running through the fantasy as a relaxation or mild turn-on, others use it together with masturbation.

Practise your newly developed fantasy techniques when you’re sexually intimate with your partner, by merging the real lovemaking with the fantasy. Some couples enjoy sharing their fantasies with each other and sometimes acting on them. If you think this would benefit your relationship, but haven’t tried it before, then suggest it to your partner – just take care to reassure him or her that the reason you wish to try this is not because you desire someone else (e.g. the Brad or J-Lo you’ve cast in your movie) over them, but that you feel it could enhance the existing attraction between the two of you.

If the subject matter of your fantasies makes you feel uncomfortable, remember that thinking something and acting on it really are worlds apart. The great thing about fantasies is that you are free to think, be and feel anything you like, because there are no consequences. But fantasizing should be a positive experience; if you feel as if it’s getting out of control, or the thoughts are becoming intrusive and distressing, and then banish them from your mind.

Remember: you’re the director of this movie.

Beautiful women

Foreplay Tips

2008-02-16T09:27:00.004+02:00

Foreplay is an important and crucial part of the whole lovemaking process. It is simply defined as everything you do that comes before actual intercourse. A couple needs foreplay to spice up their sex life, get fully aroused, and heighten pleasure.

Men are from Mars:

Sometimes men need prolonged foreplay to get an erection. Foreplay for men is relatively simple and easy. The direct touching of the genitals usually does the trick. But for those women, who want to tantalize their men into submission remember these five foreplay-for-him manoeuvres:

1. Visuals play a vital role, so a sexy clothe would be a nice touch but giving him an unadulterated view of your body will be the hottest gift. Reinforce this view with some steamy moves guaranteed to thrill, like giving him a strip tease.
2. Let your parted lips roam his body, like his stomach or chest, then slowly exhale. The rush of hot air will change the temperature in his skin and heighten his arousal.
3. Seize control and show your animal instinct. You'll be surprise to know that men crave seduction as much as a woman and being aggressive is a sign of lust and that you’re as into it as he is.
4. Excite them with touch. Guys are especially touchy when they are between the sheets. Giving him butt massages and long but gentle scratches up and down their back will turn your man right on.
5. Do what ever it is you are doing to bring him to the brink. Then ease up, not necessarily stopping, but put off the good thing for a while. Do this a few times until he screams "enough already."

Women are from Venus:

Women need foreplay to become properly lubricated. For women foreplay is a bit more complicated. Direct genital touching is the last place you should go, consider every where else on her body as a good place to touch, massage and kiss before you go there. Letting her know that she is wanted for more than sex, that she is cared about as a woman, is what really turns her on. Here is a five step plan to help her get ready:

1. Nothing is more important to a woman than knowing that you have a connection. It can be as simple as telling her that you were thinking about her, and missed her, nothing over-the-top, just honest and caring conversation.
2. Remember that being intimate does not have to mean being sexual. Once in a while ask her probing questions and give her more than one-word replies when she asks you the same. Confide in her, and let her know that you appreciate her listening.
3. Establish physical contact without being sexual, like holding her hand, giving her massages, do anything to simply make contact without mauling her.
4. Kissing, for women, is an incredible turn on. You have to remember that women sees kissing as another form of emotional intimacy so do not go to a lot of tongue action right away. It will be good to start with a brief caressing of lips and pay attention to whether or not she’s digging it. If she is, continue from there with a bit more passion but always be aware of whether she is reciprocating. A great trick is to imitate her kissing style, as it’s surely a sign of what she likes!
5. Remember that from kissing her until the "heavy petting" stage, there should be some interval in between. The duration of the kiss will depend on how hot and bothered you both get. The longer and slower you kiss her, the more experienced you'll seem, and the she'll be excited.

There is no time limit on foreplay, usually the longer it takes the more sensitized your skin becomes and sends your senses to haywire that leads to explosive orgasm. The key is to start intercourse when you are both fully aroused and having a hard time controlling your desires.

Remember that initiating sex, breaking routine, exploration, new places, new positions, and letting her know that she is wanted sexually is what turns her on.

Beuatiful women

Lovely women

Getting (a)head

2008-02-15T12:42:00.002+02:00

This is one for the boys. Boys, it is called GIVING head for a reason.

The emphasis here is being placed on the word giving. It is not called taking head, which apparently does happen in bedrooms all over the world.

We as women "give" head. I was mortified to hear a friend of mine tell me a story where in the course of some innocent foreplay she opened her eyes to find a rather unfamiliar sight, a dick in her direct eye line. An annoyance significant enough for her to decide to call it a night until the man had learnt some basic manners.

And boys. We all agree on this... not taking blowjob liberties is basic etiquette. It is right up there with not speaking with your mouth full, covering your mouth when you cough and keeping it clean where it counts.

For many women a blowjob is a more personal experience than intercourse, many times it actually requires a long term relationship. For a lot of women it requires a relationship and a special occasion i.e. birthdays and anniversaries.

Blow jobs require an intimate love of the penis...

It seems many men are already up to speed on this front. When I recounted the story of my poor friend coming eye to eye with the unwelcome intruder, I was met by a chorus of "what a loser" from the boys present.

My male friends unanimously agreed that a guy who would shove your head in his crotch or try to perform a sneaky manoeuvre to get his piece in your mouth is, in fact, displaying seriously bad behaviour.

And that’s not the only good news, girls. It was also unanimously agreed by the same group that we are more than welcome to "take" head as often as we may please. Yay!

Apparently men are slightly less sensitive than women about going Down Under. We are more than welcome, apparently, to guide a man's head to our crotches when we would like some well deserved attention. Good to know, don’t you think?

We know men love us to go down there, and in the name of pleasure... if we love to go down there, we will. If not pleasure, in a long term relationship it will be done occasionally out of a sense of duty.

In a nutshell, boys? A blow job is a gift and a privilege, one for which a man should always say thank you. It may up your blowjob quotient if you remember that.

Acknowledgement Women24

Beautiful women

Lovely women

News Blog

Things women wish you knew

2008-02-14T11:59:00.002+02:00

Here’s something to send an untimely chill down your spine - your partner is hoping you’ll read this article.

Face it, women are different to men – you may already have noticed. So it’s predictable that some of the things blokes do in bed will drive women wild, while others might just irk them a bit. Here are a few, and what you can do about them.

Hygiene
Even if you believe your trouser furniture is clean, a shower before bed never hurt anyone. She might even get into hot water with you. Being clean is a basic courtesy, whether you’ve spent the day by the pool or mopping out the lion’s cage. Don’t make a big ceremony of it. Just say, “I’m going to have a shower before bed,” or ad lib it. The same goes for your hands and any other part of you that you plan to put inside her. Clean hands and immaculately trimmed and scrubbed nails are mandatory.

Trying to be a stud
Women can be very sensitive about this: Mr Lover Man goes through his whole seduction routine, stimulating her squishy bits and coaxing her toward an almighty orgasm. Yet she gets the feeling he’s making love to A Woman, rather than to her. Try focusing on her. Calling her by her name is good, especially if you pronounce it correctly.

Foreplay starts with the clothes on
Warming up to a sweaty, naked encounter can start hours, even days beforehand and actually being considerate and nice can pay dividends. Some blokes can pull off the whole smouldering, bad-guy image, but a lot of the time they end up glowering, Healthcliffe-like, at themselves in the mirror of some bar. The bottom line: don’t stand her up for lunch and then expect to arrive at her place and be greeted by a seductress in something lacy.

Hitting the same bases
Beware of slipping into a schedule: kiss, breasts, kiss some more, penetration. Once a woman feels you’ve fallen into a habit, the thermostat goes off. Remind yourself of all the other nerve endings in splendid array around her body. Even slender girls have plenty of skin and all of it has really useful nerve endings.

Keeping quiet
Even if you’re not the most articulate of men when you’re in the sack, try to at least emit the occasional appreciative sound. And if she urges you to talk to her during those intimate moments, you’d better learn to.

Being too rough
We’ll put it down to enthusiasm, but no woman likes to have her breasts twisted off or her vagina prodded with claw-like fingers. You’re dealing with soft, pliable tissue here. Go softly. If you’re doing it correctly, you’ll know, and if she wants more pressure or roughness she’ll probably tell you.

Finishing too soon
For some men this becomes a dreaded habit that warrants therapy. For most, it can be fixed with a little self-help. Masturbate until you’re about to have an orgasm, then stop. Repeat this several times before finishing off. Regularly working at this will help to delay your reaction and you ought to be able to control it better. Until you get that right you can rely on the rest of your formidable arsenal of stimulation to provide your partner with all sorts of pleasure. You can give her an orgasm with cunnilingus or your fingers, or take her up to the very brink before introducing your penis.

Lasting too long
Some men would give a kidney to have this problem, but it can be very little fun for women who just wish the guy would finish up. For some men, this is a result of plenty of frenzied, hurried masturbation, which has left the penis desensitised. It can be cured by leaving the member alone for a few weeks. With no masturbation, there’ll be some return of sensitivity. After that you should masturbate gently, or by using only your fingertips, not squeezing like you’re trying to throttle a python.

By William Smook

Beautiful women

Lovely women

My news

The Secret of a Better Sex Life

2008-02-13T12:03:00.002+02:00

Experiment

Fill your sex life with colors and make it as varied as possible. Do not be afraid to try something new and go beyond the limits as long as both of you agree. There is no other way to know what is best for you than experimenting. Be curious about your partner's needs and help him or her discover their centres of pleasure. You may change the place, indulge in role-playing, try some new positions and fulfil your secret sex fantasies to keep things fresh and intriguing.

Do not let your dissatisfaction grow

Sexual relationships do not die one day. In most cases, sex problems, little misunderstandings and dissatisfaction grow with the time and finally these leads to total disagreement. All couples experience some difficulties and have their own vision of ideal sex life. The secret of couples who manage to have better sex life is the ability to discuss all the problems openly not hurting their partners.

Many ticklish situations are inevitable and being honest about your needs and desires is one of the best ways to assure no one leaves the bedroom feeling bitter.

Initiate sex

If one of the partners always takes the lead in sex life and the other is passive, it is likely that active partner may get tired. When you take the initiative it doesn't only show your interest but also give your partner the opportunity to relax and enjoy the pleasure in full. Very often partners establish certain role patterns with the time. It is important to break the rules sometimes and make a completely new scenario.

Share your impressions

It is a good idea to share your impressions with your partner after sex sessions, thus giving each other the opportunity to learn what was good and where you can improve your performance. Do not be shy about saying your opinion on a new practice you both have tried and what can be done to make it better.
Such talks bring you closer to each other and create special intimacy.

Boost your knowledge

Do not think that you know everything about sex. Read books and informative material that may broaden your knowledge about healthy and satisfying sex life. The more sexually educated you will be, the more likely it is for you to have a varied and gratifying experience with your partner. It is also useful for both partners to learn something new about sex and share that knowledge with each other.

Be flexible

You might be totally wrong, if you think that following all the rules of a good sex will make your sex life smooth and exciting all the time. There will be times when you would not want to have sex or sex won't resemble a sparkling hot night, but rather a common routine. Every sexual relationship undergoes ups and downs, that's why it is important to be flexible in any situation and have a light-hearted approach to minor oops.

Compliment each other

It is not a secret that men and women enjoy complements and your partner is not an exception. If it is new lingerie - make sure you noticed and appreciated it. Always tell your partner what you liked best about his or her performance and express your excitement. Also be attentive to all the new ideas and small details your partner introduces.

Have sex for pleasure

Avoid having sex when you do not really want it. The frequency of sex is individual for each partner and sex is not obligatory. Having sex when you are not in the mood for it will not do any good for both of you. If you are not attuned to have sex, create the necessary atmosphere or wait till the right moment comes. However, if you dislike sex with your partner most of the time, this should be a reason to talk to your partner honestly.

Acknowledgement realsextips.com

Beautiful women

Jenny love

Lovely women

Women's fear of penis

2008-02-12T12:17:00.000+02:00

A well-known psychoanalyst Freud has described: women have a kind of penis envy, persuading women are so much impressed by men's inborn possession of the manhood that can almost faint in presence of it. Indeed the oldest prejudice that women simply jump out of their pants to see what penis size their partner has remains topical. But it seems to me that this myth survives only within males circle. In fact, most women I am acquainted with are likely to have more of a fear feeling than admiration.

Some men are also so excited at the idea that they deliberately demonstrate their penis and expect you to be ravished by its looks. But let's think...most women are brought up in fear of male genitals, being threatened that it can hurt and thus have no trust towards it. To say more, a lot of "happy married" wives are still unaware what does this organ looks like. To most women "penis" is a kind of unknown creature which has quite unpredictable behaviour, and seems to act separately from its owner. And when he exposes this "creature" to his beloved one, there is not a slightest sign of envy. Besides, it often happens that women project their resentment feelings and dissatisfaction with the certain person on his manhood. And taking into account that for many women sex is fused with feelings, and not all men are so competent about the peculiarities of woman's sexuality such a cautious attitude towards man's pride looks quite offensive.

But well ladies, any man wouldn't be excited to see your face drawn with horror or disgust while examining his precious organ. Many men take it rather personal, thinking you dislike them on the whole. And believe it or not, here where a lot of "penis size" concerns take their roots. One good advice I can give is to get to know his penis better and learn to see it as his alter ego and surely not as an alien who is going to invade your territory.

Acknowledgement realsextips.com

Ebooks

Beautiful women

To Shave or Not To Shave Down There

2008-02-11T16:00:00.000+02:00

I used to be a normal healthy human being, right up until the age of fifteen or so. What happened at fifteen? What happened at fifteen was, I sprouted hair, and I'm not talking about on my head either! I mean as if I didn't have enough to worry about, like which of the Osmond's I really wanted to go on a dream date with, I sprouted hair. Where it came from I have no idea, or at least I didn't back then.

It just grew and I just sort of wondered what the hell it was for. It didn't serve a purpose, did it? All I could think of was it was to protect me from all the bad boys that I'd heard about. The ones who were always trying to get a peek under my skirt. The ones my Mother warned me about but never really told me why I should worry about them.

Once it started, it just seemed to grow of its own accord. I couldn't control it anymore than I could my hormones at that age. Like most teenage girls I read magazines. The teen magazines that tell you sex is great, but it's dirty unless it's with someone who really loves you. Playing with yourself is ok, just don't do it in public! I searched those magazines looking for the article that would transform my life and answer all my questions.

All that research eventually paid off. I found the article I was seeking, the article that told me I was in fact normal and so was all this hair. Hair on my legs, under my arms and on those mysterious parts that were located between my thighs. I began to read, I began to feel normal. Then I turned over the page and almost had a heart attack. On one page it told me all this hair was normal, an essential part of becoming a real woman, on the next it described this hair as "Unwanted"

What the hell? If it was unwanted, why did it grow? Who didn't want it? Okay, so I didn't want it but that lead to many other questions, like, how to get rid of it? The article answered all those questions as well and scared the hell out of me.

The hair under my arms was undesirable; no boy would ever love me if I left all that hair there. The hair on my legs would have to go as well. That just left the hair down there, you know down there, the unmentionable hair. Funny thing was they never mentioned it either!

I decided to be brave and after much gritting of the teeth and a liberal dose of my fathers shaving foam, began to follow the instructions for removing all this "unwanted" hair. Shaving my legs wasn't so bad. The article said I should buy my own razor but paper rounds didn't pay too well in those days so I kind of stole my Dad's for the exercise. Bullied on by the ease of removing this ugly hair from my legs I decided to go for the kill and get rid of the underarm stuff as well.

This, I soon discovered was no easy task but I managed somehow to wield the potentially deadly razor over my delicate skin without so much of a nick. I was so proud of my new look. I was a woman, more than that; I was a hairless woman, well almost! I admit I missed a few bits that first time but...

I went through those teenage years perfecting my shaving techniques and experimenting with creams and potions, I was either told or read about. Then when I was in my twenties, I read an article in a magazine that finally broached the subject of the unmentionable hair that still nestled silently between my thighs. I read this article a few times. The idea of shaving my other pubic hair was a radical one, at least to me, back then. But I liked radical, I liked the idea of being radical and to me this was about as radical as it got!

I read and reread the article. So many decisions to make, should I just shave it off? The thought of a razor down there scared me more than anything else. What if I cut off the delicate parts? How would I be able to go to the hospital and say excuse me but ... was my biggest concern. Then again I wasn't to keen on the other options that were offered either. Waxing looked painful. Just the description of the process made my eyes water. Creams seemed a bit iffy, I would go to the chemist and read the instructions, warnings abounded, and do a skin patch test in case of allergic reactions. Do not apply to sensitive areas! I figured you don't get much more sensitive than that area, so shelved the idea.

Eventually I decided to go radical and shave down there! So there I was stood in the bath, razor in one hand and shaving foam plastered all over my nether regions. This is when I got really scared, I mean, I couldn't even see the damn thing through the mass of hair and foam but I was determined. I just wish someone had told me to trim the bush that had sprouted with a pair of scissors before I started to shave. None of the articles I read give this handy little hint. Whether it was an oversight on their part, I guess I'll never know but Jesus, if only they had I could have saved myself from an hour of torture. I began to shave the best way I knew how, which on reflection wasn't a very good way.

I soon discovered pubic hair is longer than it looks. It just seemed to go on for ever, each time I washed the razor and looked down expecting to see a bald patch I was disappointed. Still never one to be beaten I persevered. A fresh razor blade later and finally a small bald patch appeared.

There was no turning back now. An hour or so later and suddenly I could see my not so smooth, white skin beginning to appear where once there had been only hair. I stood in front of the mirror and admired my new look. It was then I noticed the bits I'd missed, during the process. I set to work with renewed vigour. Gently, carefully, very carefully removing the few hairs that remained inside my outer lips. One more rinse, a quick feel and I was surprising pleased with how I felt about my new found baldness as I stood admiring myself in the mirror.

It looked different but more than that it made me feel different. Not an easy feeling to explain, but it was like going to the hairdressers unsure of how you actually want you hair to look and then being pleasantly surprised by the results. That strange mixture of feeling good about yourself and yet strange because you look so different. Only difference was this felt more liberating than going to the hairdressers, as far as I was concerned this was positively daring than having my hair dyed blue, could ever be.

The next big step was to allow my partner in on the secret. I worried, I fretted. Would he like my new look? Would he run away in horror? It was worse than having a new hairdo! I soon discovered that any worries I might have had on that score was unfounded. He loved it, the feel, and the look. He said it was like having sex with a new woman. I wasn't sure about that comment but I let it pass, because it was like having sex with a new man for me.

Two days later and I didn't feel quite the same way though! That was when it started to itch, and I mean itch. The more I scratched, discreetly of course, the more it seemed to itch. I consulted the mag and a couple of trusted girlfriends, who after much merriment informed me that I had to keep shaving! Once you start you can't stop, I was informed. Okay, so I started to shave every couple of days and the itching stopped.

Nowadays shaving is part of my daily routine; to me it's like washing my hair or brushing my teeth. Despite those anxieties I experienced as I was growing up, and discovering, I'm glad I took the plunge.

My main reason for writing this article was to show any women that are unsure, that we all suffer the same anxieties and worries when we start to experiment. Mainly because life is never as simple as those damn magazines tell us it will be...

By: Jenne

Making love

2008-02-10T16:00:00.000+02:00

Over the years I have been aware of a distinction between having sex and making love. Recently I have come to see how far apart they are.

In his book ‘Indecent Practices and Erotic Trance: Making Sense of Tantric’, John Ryan Haule questions our use of the term ‘making love’ for anything sexual. I recently spoke about this during my workshops. As I did, I came to see how clear a concept ‘making love’ is.

We all know what sex is and maybe even have had some experience of making love. When I’ve spoken about the difference, everybody in the room has agreed.

I’ve come to define sex as a goal-oriented genital activity. The goal is orgasm for at least one of the people involved, both if you’re lucky and/or know what you’re doing.

Making love is a different story. The words themselves tell us that we’re going to make something; we’re going to create it or build it, or mix the ingredients to get something more or different than when we began. And because it’s love that we’re making, our hearts are involved. Our mouths, our hands, our genitals, our bodies become a channel to express that love.

Aware and awake
This tells us that there’s an intention involved. We’re not unconscious of what we’re doing; it’s not out of habit, as is often the case with sex. We’re aware and awake. We’re creating something between us, or just with ourselves, that wasn’t there before.

This act of creation is really exciting because it’s done with pleasure, in the name of pleasure. It forces us to use aspects of our bodies and minds that we wouldn’t normally bring to a sexual encounter.

We have to take time to make love, get the mixture right, give it time to brew and bake, to heat and settle. So we slow down from the speed of the world, we can breathe. And we’re saying I’m important, you’re important, what we have is important. We have value. In valuing we are nourished.

And in making love we’re able to feel beautiful, whatever the body looks like. If you can give and receive pleasure at this level, you will feel beautiful. Think about the relief and peace you’ll feel accepting yourself because somebody, even yourself, loves you.

What about sex?
Now before you jump down my throat and say, ‘What about sex?’ Sex is wonderful, orgasms are great! I teach people how to have better sex, how to have awesome 20 minute orgasms.

But if sex is all there is, we have a problem. Because it’s not enough. If sex is all there we will get bored, that is guaranteed.

Once we’ve done everything we possibly can, with every position, every orifice, once, twice, ten times, we will get bored and look for new levels of excitement elsewhere, or stop having sex.

What about those not in a relationship?
You’re not excluded from making love. This doesn’t mean orgasm-oriented masturbation. It means a sensual exploration of your body, your face, allowing your heart and your genitals to talk to each other, allowing your hands to express your heart's love to your body, feeling and touching your own beauty.

Being open to your own self. For you are a sexual and sensual being in your own right, regardless of whether you’re in a relationship or not. You can make beautiful love to and with yourself. Wonderfully, gently, passionately.

Are sex and making love exclusive?
Of course not, you can make sexual love. Having become aware of this difference and talking about it in massage and touch workshops, it’s amazing to see how these experiences can become acts of love-making, where something real and tangible is made.

It’s also been incredible to watch people make love to themselves and not even touch their genitals.

In one of his songs, Nat King Cole sings about, ‘a strange, enchanted boy’, who teaches that:
The greatest gift you’ll ever learn,
Is to love, and be loved in return.

Let’s Make Love!

By Jonti Searll

Beautiful women

Lovely women

Sex for one

2008-02-09T12:12:00.000+02:00

How can you expect to have mind-blowing sex with your man, if you can't have mind-blowing fun with yourself? Here's how to do it.

Train your fingers to work perfectly... every time! And if you're a boy... take notes!

Privacy and relaxation are essential. Make sure there are no curious kids around or jealous lovers who wouldn't understand. Find a relaxed setting: a warm bath, cuddly bed or cosy couch.

Fantasy is a key ingredient. Think of a past sexual encounter that made the earth – and the bed – move. An erotic magazine or adult movie may also set you on your way.

Run your hands all over your body, concentrating on the sensitive bits. If you're unsure where your clitoris is, position a hand mirror between your legs. Study your genitals with the aid of an anatomical guide (available in almost any good sex manual) and explore the different parts to see what feels good.

Examine the clitoris, its hood, the protruding clitoral shaft, the vaginal opening and the outer lips (labia) of the vulva. Stroke them, experimenting with different pressures and rhythms, and using a lubricant like KY jelly, if necessary.

The centre of the female orgasmic universe is the clitoris, a collection of 8 000 nerve fibres, so it makes sense to concentrate on that. Try rubbing it in a circular motion while alternating the speed. Remember, there's no right or wrong way to masturbate or climax. Each woman is unique and responds her own way to stimulation.

The breathe-and-rock technique works wonders. Hold your breath, rock the pelvis as you would during sex and then clench and release the pelvic muscles, as you would do if you were trying to control a flow of urine. Done regularly, this exercise strengthens the vaginal walls and makes orgasm more intense.

As you approach orgasm, take a break to heighten the finale. Saving the best for last is a core element of tantric sex, where the journey's as important as the destination.

A good vibrator (available at any sex shop) provides intense stimulation at variable speeds. It can also enhance the fun during partner sex. The "Rabbit Pearl", made famous by Sex and the City, allows vaginal penetration and simultaneous clitoral stimulation. Cover the massager with a cloth in order to absorb some of the vibrations.

beautiful women

sexy women

funny women

No sex = ok sex

2008-02-08T16:42:00.000+02:00

One of the best things about growing older is that the idea of having 25 orgasms a night loses its appeal.

The flipside of this is that we can lose interest in sex completely – but is this such a terrible thing? Why do we feel so guilty about it? And – most importantly – will we ever get our groove back?

Which would you rather have – sex or intimacy?

Chances are, if you're in your late 30s or 40s, you'd go for intimacy over sex. Of course, if you're in your teens or slightly older, you'd probably go for the sex – and that's exactly as it should be: there's a time for experimenting and putting it all out there, so to speak, and there's a time for consolidating.

The strange thing is, happy as we are to accept that shift in the way we see the world in other areas of our lives, we find it very difficult to accept when it comes to our sexual desires; in some profound way, no longer wanting to have sex that often – or at all – seriously threatens our sense of self.

Lack of desire has been associated with many different things – with becoming a mother, with having too little time to get yourself into the mood, with being in a relationship so long that your partner, in your eyes, is no longer the hungry wolf at the door but the comfy sheepskin slippers under the bed, with getting intimacy from your kids so you no longer need it from your partner...

What happens when you want it, but...?
All of these are probably true to a lesser or greater extent, but there's also another factor that often goes undocumented: that your partner may also feel less like sex than he used to, and that the old cliché of the man always being up for it and the woman always having a headache may need to go the way of all outdated ideas: defenestrated. Good word, huh? It means chucked out of the window.

In a culture that still seems to value youth above all else, sexual desire is seen as one of the major signals that you've still got what it takes. You may be boringly stable in any other area of your life: same job, same partner, same house, same picket fence – but if you're still hanging from the chandeliers as often as you can, then in some way you are seen as hanging onto your youth, and therefore your credentials.
For women who have lost interest in sex and are partnered with men who still want it, it can be very traumatic, because it threatens all the ideas of self that you have held so dear for so long. But that's the way you have to view it: it's a stage.

Sex experts the world over say that this isn't a reason to get anxious; that would be counterproductive. Instead, they advise that we use it to explore other aspects of our sexuality and/or creativity.
Apparently, one of the reasons that monks and priests renounced sex was in order to redirect that enormous energy elsewhere. Actor and writer Stephen Fry is famous for adopting the same position: he said that when he wasn't focused on who he was going to have sex with, how and when, he found himself to be much more creative in other areas – his brain worked better, he could write better and think loftier thoughts.
So think of this fallow sex period as a time to explore other areas, rather than a problem that needs to be fixed. Chances are, when you reconnect with your (neglected) more creative side, your sexual energies will come surging back. Which brings us to another point – ahem: masturbation.

Let's talk about... ssshhhh! Aha! Another taboo subject for women. But why? Just because you don't feel like sex with someone else doesn't mean you don't feel like sex.

So you don't feel like giving, you feel like receiving. So what? You're entitled to feel that way. And it's a great opportunity to explore that side of yourself, too: when you're not busy worrying about what gives your partner pleasure, you're much more open to discovering what turns you on. When (and if) you go back to jumping him the minute he opens the door, it'll be with a whole new energy and a load of new ideas.

Given masturbation's bad rap in the past, we're not surprised that 'solo sensuality' is still seen as a slightly squirmy topic. It's the last of the sexual taboos, largely because of the truckloads of medical misinformation and religious zeal that surrounds it.
At the turn of the century, some mothers, horrified by the thought of any 'peculiar' goings-on in their daughters' bedrooms, forced their offspring to wear steel wool gloves at night to prevent any furtive acts of self-love. Some of the even more uptight moms might have sent their bewildered teen off to the doctor for a good dose of sulphuric acid on the clitoris, rendering any further thoughts of masturbation obsolete.
Weirdly enough, even today, although we're willing to divulge details about dodgy finances, cosmetic surgery and how much we hate our in-laws, we're still prudishly reluctant to bang on about masturbation in public.

In the anonymous zone that is the Internet, women around the globe are only too happy to share stories about their orgasmic encounters with ice cream scoops, shower nozzles and butter knives, among other things. But in real life, admitting that we masturbate is a big no-no.

Yet, as sexologist Marlene Wasserman says, while we may be highly unlikely to raise the topic of self-pleasuring over a glass of bubbly with our girlfriends, perhaps we should.

The art of sharing
"Sharing our experiences of masturbation with each other de-pathologises the issue," she says. "And bringing it into mainstream conversation would reassure us that our behaviour is completely normal."

Happily, the art of bringing ourselves to orgasm is not just about a quick, secretive, pleasurable high. Knowing how to make yourself glow is billed as a massive sexual confidence booster, a brilliant stress reliever and a terrific cure for insomnia. It's also safe, free and convenient.

Even better, getting in touch with your sensual self is known as one of the more creative ways of improving your sex life. "Being able to pleasure yourself can often aid your relationship if there is a lull in sexual activity or a discrepancy of desire," Marlene says.

"So often, an absence of, or increasing lack of interest in sex in a long-term partnership is because the woman complains that 'he just doesn't know what to do'." If you are comfortable masturbating in front of your partner, he'll get a good look-see at the way you turn yourself on. At the very least, you can give him a few private, time-saving tips.

And if that still makes you squirmy, take comfort from the fact that, in the great, big, grand scheme of things, it's all part of the process. Really.

Acknowledgement Fair Lady

Beautiful women

lovely women

Love

5 steps to sensuality

2008-02-07T16:41:00.000+02:00

Looking for something to accelerate your sex drive?

Here are five titillating, toy-free love-making tips from Sex Q&A (Dorling Kindersley), by sexologist Anne Hooper:

1. Your partner hides a dab of honey on his body. Your job is to find it with your tongue.

2. Eat a whole meal off your partner's body: starter on his chest, the main course on his belly, and dessert on his abdomen and genitals.

3. Go on a sexy picnic – outdoors, or on your bedroom floor. Pack a large, soft rug, chilled wine, honey, melon slices, strawberries, cherries, frozen grapes, a selection of suggestively shaped foods (carrots, cucumbers, chocolate bars, lollipops). Then use your imagination.

4. Give your partner a "three-handed massage". Sit astride him and rub massage oil over the front of his body, and over your breasts, abdomen and thighs. Begin massaging him with your hands and then start using the other lubed-up areas of your body. All-over arousal for you both.

5. Blindfold yourself or your partner, and stand together in front of a mirror. This encourages the person who is watching the action in the mirror to be completely uninhibited.

Beautiful women

Jenny Love

Lovely Jenny

Hand Job Techniques

2008-02-06T16:41:00.000+02:00

Hand jobs are a great way to pleasure your man. They can be used by themselves, or while performing oral sex on your partner. Below is a listing of hand job techniques. Although not necessary, it is better to perform these using a lubricant.

Pressure

With one hand, pull the shaft's skin toward the base and wrap the fingers of this hand around the base to act as a cock ring. Using the other hand, rhythmically pick various points along the shaft of the penis and squeeze opposite sides of the penile shaft at these points, releasing pressure either immediately or after only a brief period of time.

Fire

Rub the penis between both palms, as if rubbing two sticks together to create fire. Be sure to use plenty of oil.

Glans Head Massage

Hold the penis in one hand with the head sticking up. Using the well-oiled palm of your other hand, slowly and sensitively massage the glans head. Reverse directions every once in a while.

Healing Stroke

With the penis resting on the man's stomach, take one hand and cup the testicles. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the underside of the penis.

Twist and Shout

Pull the skin of the penis toward the base with one hand. With the other hand, corkscrew the penis. This can be done with the thumb and first finger or with your entire grip.

Anvil Stroke

Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top, all the way to the bottom. When you hit the bottom, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat.

Bookends

Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down.

Doorknob

Turn the head of his penis like you're trying to open an oily doorknob. Now try turning the other way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base.

Double Whammy

Bring your well lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some penises are so big they require both hands; if your partner's doesn't, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his testicles, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft then move them together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Pretend you're holding a baseball bat and are about to score a grand slam. You can also vary the directions of your hands: one up, one down at the same time.

Milking

Start with one hand lightly grasping the bottom of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the bottom all the way to the top. When you hit the top, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the bottom of the penis and repeat.

Perpetual Penetration

Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom, letting his penis "penetrate" into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his penis pops out of your hand, bring the other hand up for the next penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper into an infinite vagina. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous.

Ring

Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up and down with it. When you get to the top close the ring. Then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom.

Shaft

Stroke only his shaft, ignoring his glans head. You will notice his glans head swelling and turning red. When it's bright red, use Doorknob, Glans Head Massage, or Perpetual Penetration.

Shuttle Penis

Take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding onto the loose skin of the shaft. Do this stroke for a while to allow tension to build.

Spot Pinch

Lightly and slowly run a finger up the underside of his penis. Ask him to tell you where the most sensitive spot is. Pinch, squeeze, nibble and tease that spot.

Beautiful and sexy women

Using self-help strategies

2008-02-05T16:12:00.000+02:00

Treating sexual problems is easier now than ever before. Revolutionary medications and professional sex therapists are there if you need them. But you may be able to resolve minor sexual issues by making a few adjustments in your lovemaking style. Here are some things you can try at home.

Educate yourself. Plenty of good self-help materials are available for every type of sexual issue. Browse the Internet or your local bookstore, pick out a few resources that apply to you, and use them to help you and your partner become better informed about the problem. If talking directly is too difficult, you and your partner can underline passages that you particularly like and show them to each other.

Give yourself time. As you age, your sexual responses slow down. You and your partner can improve your chances of success by finding a quiet, comfortable, interruption-free setting for sex. Also, understand that the physical changes in your body mean that you'll need more time to get aroused and reach orgasm. When you think about it, spending more time having sex isn't a bad thing; working these physical necessities into your lovemaking routine can open up doors to a new kind of sexual experience.

Use lubrication. Often, the vaginal dryness that begins in peri-menopause can be easily corrected with lubricating liquids and gels. Use these freely to avoid painful sex -- a problem that can snowball into flagging libido and growing relationship tensions. When lubricants no longer work, discuss other options with your doctor.

Maintain physical affection. Even if you're tired, tense, or upset about the problem, engaging in kissing and cuddling is essential for maintaining an emotional and physical bond.

Practice touching. The sensate focus techniques that sex therapists use can help you re-establish physical intimacy without feeling pressured. Many self-help books and educational videos offer variations on these exercises. You may also want to ask your partner to touch you in a manner that he or she would like to be touched. This will give you a better sense of how much pressure, from gentle to firm, you should use.

Try different positions. Developing a repertoire of different sexual positions not only adds interest to lovemaking, but can also help overcome problems. For example, the increased stimulation to the G-spot that occurs when a man enters his partner from behind can help the woman reach orgasm.

Write down your fantasies. This exercise can help you explore possible activities you think might be a turn-on for you or your partner.

Do Kegel exercises. Both men and women can improve their sexual fitness by exercising their pelvic floor muscles. To do these exercises, tighten the muscle you would use if you were trying to stop urine in midstream. Hold the contraction for two or three seconds, then release. Repeat 10 times. Try to do five sets a day. While these exercises can be done anywhere -- while driving, sitting at your desk, or standing in a checkout line -- in women they are most effective when you use vaginal weights to add muscle resistance. Talk to your doctor or a sex therapist about where to get these and how to use them.

Try to relax. Do something soothing together before having sex, such as playing a game or going out for a nice dinner. Or try relaxation techniques such as deep breathing exercises or yoga.

Use a vibrator. This device can help a woman learn about her own sexual response and allow her to show her partner what she likes.
Don't give up. If none of your efforts seem to work, don't give up hope. Your doctor can often determine the cause of your sexual problem and may be able to treat it with medication. He or she can also put you in touch with a sex therapist that can help you explore issues that may be standing in the way of a fulfilling sex life

Oral Sex Tips for Him

2008-02-03T11:43:00.000+02:00

For men here is what I recommend you do to pleasure your partner. Start with your lovers’ breasts and cover them with kisses. Work your way down her belly, kissing her and licking her gently as you go. When you reach her ‘tunnel of love’ kiss the insides of her thighs before you plunge your tongue inside her. Nibble on her gently to see how she responds. If she enjoys it, keep going.

Teasing the Button of Love

Don’t forget about her ‘button of love’ located just above her ‘tunnel of love.’ The ‘button’ is where we receive the greatest amount of sexual pleasure. Bite it with your teeth or rub it in between your fingers. Touching it in different places will bring different amounts of pleasure to your lover.

Use Your Fingers

Some women have a hard time reaching climax when you make love so to help her, insert one finger inside her ‘tunnel of love’ or use your mouth. Have her stimulate her ‘button’ from the outside. She will probably arch her back to bring herself the greatest amount of pleasure and it shouldn’t take long before she reaches her climax.

Careful with the Button

Remember that the ‘button’ is very sensitive. Too much stimulation could cause her pain and she might not be able to climax. Take your time and enjoy listening to her as you pleasure her. Women love to moan and scream when they make love. It makes sex more enjoyable when we can be as loud as we want and you are the only one who can hear us!

Beautiful women

Sexy women

Lovely women

Between the sheets

2008-02-02T19:48:00.000+02:00

Ever had a day when your partner's tongue's hanging out for sex but you're keeping him at arm's length because you're just too tired, stressed and preoccupied to think about passion? Has your sex life slipped into a rut? Here are some tips on how to spice things up.

Be open to your partner's advances - don't always make an excuse, or turn him down outright. Sometimes sex can be a great way to unwind and make the awful day you've had go away.

Add a little variety - imagine you're a different person every time you make love, and you'll experience sex differently. Varying the pace of things can really rejuvenate your sex life.

Let sex heal you - when we have sex, powerful "feel-good" chemicals called endorphins are released into our bodies. These help lift our spirits when we're tired, stressed, disappointed or despondent.

Be adventurous - try out different sexual identities, positions and techniques. Pop into an adult store and buy some edible underwear, a book on sex and try some of the suggestions. Above all, conduct your experiments with a sense of humour!

True Love

Beautiful women

Sexy women

Sex with Clothes On

2008-02-01T17:18:00.000+02:00

Don't think that nudity is an ultimate turn on. If you really want to add spice into your sex life, one of the best ways to do it is to arouse your partner while being dressed.

Having something on during sex can be extremely arousing. Lie over him and touching his body with your breasts while wearing silky lingerie. The cooling sensation of a silk material together with warmth of your body will create a special sensation.

Get close to him and dive your hand under his jeans. You can whisper something naughty in his ears when teasing him or simply kiss his neck.

Turn him on by showing no panties under your skirt. Thus when you will feel in the heat of the passion, you can simply hint him to start off showing your bits under skirt.
Innocent or dominant? A man can opt for both. Get dressed so that to look feminine and gentle yet remaining self-confident. For example, you may wear sheer bra with G-string combined with high-heeled shoes or stockings attached to a garter belt. Your lover won't resist a temptation.

Silk scarf can become a good handy tool for your sexy games. Softly tie up the scarf around his scrotum (but be careful as this area is quite sensitive) while stimulating his penis with your mouth. This will increase his erection and overall arousal.

There is no need to be completely naked during sex - a little something hiding your breast or privates can be very arousing. You can leave your stockings when he is penetrating you from behind or wear bra only when you are on top - this will be a great visual appeal for him.
Tease him while wearing your lingerie only. Sit him down and rub your butt or hips over his down area. You can agree on hands-off rule while you will be driving him crazy swaying your hips around him.

Don't rush into "main dish"- savour the forbidden first. If he is giving you oral sex, ask him not to take off your panties. He can first lick your through sheer underwear.

Try to take off his clothes with your mouth. While it takes more time to get him undressed it will also make him anticipate lovemaking like nothing else. It may take little practice and you can help yourself using your hands when necessary.

Give yourself a special treat wearing vibrating panties when he is penetrating you. A double pleasure of the vibrator stimulating your clitoris combined with penetration can bring you to the heights of pleasure.
Breasts

Sexy

Lovely

Does Breast Size Matter?

2008-01-31T16:10:00.000+02:00

The heterosexual male attraction to the female breast is one of the truly mysterious phenomena of the universe. On the face of it, there is little logic to it. Men are drawn to the round, milk-producing protuberances emanating from a woman's chest.

Curiously, men have breasts of their own. And -- though they are about as useful as a snow shovel in the Sahara -- men have nipples as well. So why men should be so attracted to the female variant which, in point of fact, differs little from their own anatomy?

Dr. Stephen McDougal, PhD. says: "I'd say it has something to do with what breasts symbolize. There's something uniquely feminine - hyper feminine, if you will -- about the female breast. It's soft, it's inviting, it's comforting, and it's curvy. And it's just different enough from what we've got on our chest to be mysterious, erotic -- other."

He also adds: "As for size, well, the bigger the breasts are, the more mysterious, erotic, and other. Some (Freudians mostly) will tell you that men are drawn to a woman's breasts because we seek the vaguely sexual infantile memory of maternal breastfeeding. This, in my view, is poppycock. There is simply something about the breast that is emblematic of everything female. Get to see it, and you've glimpsed a beautiful nether region. Get to touch it and its like going through the gates of Shangri-la."

By the way, not all men are turned on by big breasts. Indeed, many a man is jazzed by smaller cup sizes. Vive le difference!
Beautiful breasts

Lovely breasts

Sexy breasts

Six top sex tips

2008-01-30T16:40:00.000+02:00

Has your sex life become predictable and dull? Or do you want to turn a good sex life into a great one? Open communication between sex partners is essential. But it doesn't hurt to have a few extra tips up your sleeve.

Take action:
Build your relationship – if you have a strong, nurturing relationship, you'll reap the rewards in the bedroom;
Quickies are great, but for optimum lovemaking, you need to take your time – women need at least 30 minutes to be fully aroused;
Don't fret – every couple go through times when they have sex less often;
There are erogenous zones all over your partner's body – get to know them;
Date your partner – even in long-term relationships, you need to make an effort to spend quality time together;
If your libido is low, fantasise by focusing on what you find arousing and sensual.
Check out beautiful women

Sexual energy

2008-01-29T19:00:00.000+02:00

The power of sex is in the energy of sexuality, in the building and spreading and sharing of the energy.

This requires knowledge, preparation, communication and awareness. To be a good, no a great lover, is both an art and a science. The science is knowledge of sexual anatomy, how energy moves in the body, creating space, breath, how to touch and how to communicate.

The art is in personalising and integrating all these factors, adding creativity, intuition and intimacy, the connection between lovers and the heart.

Understanding sexual energy, building and spreading it, offers so much.

Firstly, it allows any sexual or sensual experience to last as long as you’d like.
Secondly, it moves sensation from your genitals and pelvis through your whole body, making the pleasure deeper and bigger. In essence, your whole body can become a sex organ.
Thirdly, it creates experiences that are more fulfilling. It opens the door to open and honest communication that allow you to express what you enjoy, what you like, what you’d like to try etc. This level of communication leads to a very deep and special connection.
Fourthly, access to this energy increases your vitality, your health, your energy, your sense of fun and enjoyment. You become happier!

This doesn’t mean that this becomes the only way to have sex. The spontaneous quickies, the playing around, the orgasms for release etc are still great. Don’t ever stop. But know there’s more!

By Jonti Searll

Beauty

Lovely

Sexy

Living a sensual life

2008-01-28T17:48:00.000+02:00

Did you know that making love is the only endeavour which simultaneously engages and excites all six senses: sight, sound, smell, touch, taste and that sixth sense when you just know this is right or wrong for you?

We are born sensual beings. Studies have shown that babies that are touched and held develop far better and quicker than those who are left alone. Watch any child discover its world through its senses. It will touch and taste everything from sand to perfume.

When our sexuality starts to awaken, we are reprimanded for touching ourselves and whilst doing this in public is not always a good thing, we confuse the instruction and somewhere along the line we begin to believe that it is a bad thing – always. Most of us lose touch with our sensuality. We begin to operate using only one or two senses.

You may be a sight person. Blindfold yourself for half an hour and see how quickly the other senses heighten. Imagine living a life with all your senses heightened? Imagine discovering the power and joy of your own sexuality and then sharing that with your partner. We can learn to re-awaken our senses. Martha Beck said ‘Make your life a romance adventure and love will find you’.

Tips: Here are some tips on how to engage those senses:

Sight – Glance my way
Wear tantalising underwear, always. Throw out those stretched panties now!
Create a romantic ambience in your home and your office. Fill it with paintings that reflect your personality. Light candles when you eat, when you bath or in the garden.
Watch your favourite sensual movie or just your favourite scene.

Sound – Whisper to me
Play some soothing music. The best music for that massage shouldn’t have words. You don’t want your partner singing along. ‘I will survive!’ would be so inappropriate.
Three minutes of whispering sweet compliments, appreciation and love declarations into your lover’s ear, is more foreplay than most of us can handle. Do it often.
Why not try your hand at writing an erotic poem and reading it to your partner? If you can’t then what about reading your partner someone else’s.

Smell – Scent of a Woman
Always wear perfume. It will give you such joy. If you are a man, know that there is nothing better than a man who smells good enough to eat!
Light incense. Find one that doesn’t smell too sweet and doesn’t give you a headache.
Erotic aromatherapy oils such as Sandalwood, Ylang-Ylang, Rose and Jasmine can all add to that romantic mood. Use them in massage oils or burners. When he closes his eyes he should remember your smell – in a good way!

Taste – Lick me slowly
Nothing tells a girl more about a potential lover that his kiss.
Add delicious delicacies to your lovemaking – strawberries, cream and honey can all be served on your lover’s body parts.
Chocolate body paints – in different flavours - need I say more!
Always make sure that you are fresh enough to eat.

Touch – Feel me now
Soft fabrics like silk or fur will serve to heighten your sense of touch. Add a blindfold and watch the goose bumps.
Remember that touch helps to connect – touch yourself and your partner – often.
Indulge in that sensual massage. Learn how to give one and then teach your partner how to return the favour.

Sixth Sense – Are you there
Fine-tune that sense. You know when something feels right. You also know when a boundary is being crossed. Trust your instinct and say no.
Always have a safe word that your partner knows. When you say that word no matter what you are doing, stop. For a fulfilled sexual experience with yourself or your partner you need to trust.
Try to enhance one of your senses very day. Set aside special sensuality time when you focus on stimulating other senses rather than the genitals only. Be essensually you.

By Sharon

Beautiful Women

Sexy Tess

Jenny Love

How to be a good lover

2008-01-27T09:58:00.000+02:00

Most men will never have a torso like Jean-Claude van Damme, own a McLaren F1 or be able to recite Shakespeare's love sonnets. That's okay; because a few short steps can turn you into the sort of lover that will make your partner overlook these shortcomings.

Learn the art of sensual massage
Visit your local Body Shop outlet and display no hint of emotion as you buy some of their pricey but hugely useful Sensual Bath and Massage Oil. Or make up your own concoction of oils, including sandalwood, lemon grass, musk and lavender. You can use the essential oils in a burner, or mix it with carrier oil - sweet almond oil is fine - and use it as massage oil. A warning on massage: many blokes rub too hard. Try to rub more softly than you like to be rubbed. By all means work the back (never directly on the spine), shoulders, arms, buttocks and legs, but for a change, massage your partner's face and hands as well. Think of how stress builds up in your face, squinting at a monitor, traffic or dollar-rand exchange rates. It’s the same for her.

Make a special place for love
Yes, there are times for wild, impromptu couplings on your desk, the kitchen counter and car bonnet. But you're likely to rely on your bed as the backdrop for most of your lovemaking, so have a look at what's around it. The photo of your ex has to go, for a start. Ridding the room of clutter is paramount. Even if you don't go for the Scandinavian minimalist look, at least get rid of those all those dusty copies of National Geographic on the bedside table. Some wind chimes, subtle incense can do nicely, and an indoor water feature might be fun. Switch off all phones and the door bell.

Appeal to all the senses
We already mentioned incense. If the sound of the neighbour saying "Lekker-like-a-cracker" (for the 47th time) while he cleans his new swimming pool irks you, maybe it's time to buy a new house, or at least to block out the banality with some white noise courtesy of a fan or a water feature. Dispense with the Red Hot Chilli Peppers CD in favour of something earthier. Some lovers swear by CDs containing only the sound of the crashing sea. Try laying on some food and wine. Strawberries sound clichéd, but when they're small and sweet, late in the season, there are few items that size that are sexier. And they'll leave no doubt about your dishonourable intentions.

Get into shape
Yes, of course you need to work on your abs, but you don't need to win any body-building contests - most women prefer a man with a finely muscled, defined body, especially if he's not obsessive about it. Obsession is fine, as long as it’s in a bottle, not in your head. Regular exercise, not to mention soap and water, ought to suffice. There are some blokes who compensate for being fat by packing on muscle. This only works if you're a Hell's Angel. Forget about seeing your biceps in the mirror and concentrate on shared pleasure.

Learn a bit about tantric sex
No need to paint a dot on your forehead and change your name to Rama Yama Dang Ban. If you learn one trick, make it this one. Spend a long time on devoted foreplay. Then start with shallow thrusting, no more than an inch inside her. Do ten of these, then have one deep, firm thrust. Now work your way back, eight shallow and one deep, seven shallow and one deep ... you get the picture. By the time you get to the end of the cycle, she may want to name a street, town or province after you.

By William Smook

Beautiful women

Sexy Tess

Jenny Love

Embracing Your Sexuality: Asking for What You Want

2008-01-26T12:08:00.000+02:00

Many men and woman complain that they don’t have a great sex life and they are resentful toward their spouse or their partner for this. What we need to learn is; are we the real reason behind this and is our resentfulness is misplaced?

While our sexual experiences are often influenced by the people we have sex with, we are the ones that need to define what we want from our sex lives, and then seek that out. When we can embrace our sexuality and tell the people that we are physical with what we want, only then can we experience what we fantasize about. For instance, if you have many fantasies that play over and over again in your mind but you do not tell your spouse about them, why are you resentful towards them?

If you know what you want sexually you need to embrace that and learn how to tell the person you are having sex with what you want! While most couples are close, unfortunately, for the most part, partners cannot become mind readers. No amount of subtle hints is a substitute for a verbal instruction. Only when you realize that communication is paramount within a relationship, including the bedroom, will you embrace the full potential of it and thus stop misplacing that resentment.

If you feel uncomfortable talking about what you want from your sex life, try to show your partner. Experts often say that acting out what you want done to you in a sexual sense is the best way to let your partner know what you want. If you don’t think that will work or you aren’t quite that brave, don’t be afraid to write it down! Why not send a racy email or even pin a letter on the pillow of your partner to let them know what you want but are too shy to ask for! Not only will this add an element of fun and excitement to your sex life because you are asking for new and different things, your fantasies might very well be fulfilled.

By sharing what you want you may be able to try the things that you have always wanted to try, in addition to other things that may come along as you experiment. Fulfilling your fantasies will undoubtedly lead to more new and interesting things for you to try, as well as a new closeness between you and your partner.

by Jenna Stevenson

Beautiful Women

Sexy Tess

Jenny Love

Sensual Massage

2008-01-25T16:29:00.000+02:00

A memorable romantic massage takes planning. The actions you take prior to actually giving the massage are just as important as the massage technique itself. Setting the appropriate mood is vitally important in making your sensual massage as pleasurable and satisfying as intended.

Setting the Mood

A sensual massage should be a pleasant, romantic experience. To ensure that both you and your partner have the best experience possible, take the following steps to set the stage for a truly sensual massage:

* Privacy – Plan ahead to avoid interruptions. Arrange for children to be away, lock the doors, turn off the phones, and eliminate any potential distractions.

* Location – Select a spacious and comfortable massage area. Beds are much more comfortable than couches or the floor. Also make sure that the room is neither too warm nor too cool so that your partner is able to enjoy the massage without excessive heat or chill.

* Ambiance - It's important to set a romantic, sensual mood. Dim the lights, play some relaxing or romantic music, and light a candle or two to emit a warm glow and subtle fragrance.Using one of the new massage candles especially developed for use when giving massages would be perfect for this purpose. Not only will the massage candle provide a romantic ambiance, but it melts to become a warm and sensual massage oil that is ideal for giving the massage itself.

* Personal Preparation - Prior to the massage, suggest that your partner take a luxurious bath, complete with bath salts and candlelight. Your partner will be freshly bathed, fully relaxed, and ready to enjoy your sensual massage.

Giving the Massage

First, it's important to relax and enjoy yourself. Because this is a sensual massage, rather than one for therapeutic effect, you do not need to worry about exact technique. A sensual massage is intended to relax your partner, and eventually heighten his or her arousal if desired. This is quite easily achieved, even for beginners, if you follow these tips:

You will want to start slowly, being sensitive to your partner’s response. You can then adapt your technique accordingly. While giving a great massage takes a bit of practice, it is almost impossible to give a bad one.

Simply strive to keep your movements tender and rhythmic, and remain aware of how your partner is responding.

To get started, simply rub some massage oil or cream in your hands and warm it prior to starting. If you’re using a massage candle for this purpose, your oil will already be warmed to just above body temperature and it will be ready for use after melting.

Where should you start the massage? That’s really up to you. While there is no right or wrong way to begin, it's somewhat natural to start with your partner lying on his or her stomach. You might start at the shoulders, then move to the neck, down the shoulders again, and then on to arms, upper back, lower back, buttocks, thighs, calves, and eventually the feet.You may wish to have your partner move to the back at that point. You might start at the feet and gradually work your way back up the body. Some suggest working on the feet and legs, then skip to the upper body, moving slowly back down toward the stomach and pelvic area.

Working on certain areas longer, or more often than others, is both appropriate and desirable. Just be sure not to dwell too long on areas of extra sensitivity.

Some areas might be best massaged somewhat softly, while others respond more to deeper massage. Simply start experimenting. Just remember to always be tender and to keep your motions flowing. The whole concept of sensual massage involves being touched in a way that will subtly arouse your partner. As you explore his or her body, try to do it in a way that creates a continuous flow of movement, as well as to increase the level of intimacy as the massage progresses.

If you are doing a couple’s massage for the first time, or learning to please a new partner, it's especially important to communicate. You don't necessarily have to ask if every motion you try feels pleasurable, but don't be afraid to ask if he or she would prefer you to massage an area more softly or slowly, for example.

Your partner's breathing can also provide an excellent indication of how you are doing. His or her breathing can give you information about their state of relaxation. As the massage progresses, their breathing may indicate a more aroused state, which if intended, may give you exactly the type of feedback you are hoping for!

Always remember that there is absolutely no correct way to do a sensual massage. Just stay attuned to your partner's response and then gauge your movements accordingly. As you become more experienced, it will become second nature to you. In the meantime, enjoy giving your sensual massage . . . and prepare to experience an incredibly romantic evening!

This article is courtesy of Michele Lloyd, she is a writer on numerous topics and a self-proclaimed "hopeless romantic".

What is sensuality?

2008-01-24T20:49:00.000+02:00

Look in the dictionary for a definition of sensuality, depending upon the version and maker, varying definitions exist. Ask any person to define sensuality, and still more interpretations. Sensuality in its truest form is not to be confused with SEX. Sensuality means to be aroused by things of beauty, luxury and refinement, to be aware of and explore the world, life and love with all the senses. To be sensual is to be aware of and appreciate the natural, ecstasy that can be found in the sensuous, passionate world of feeling, inhabited by poets, artists, song writers and dreamers. Being sensual brings to us a life felt through our senses, seen only in the world of spirit.

Living a sensuous life, your world is enhanced by awareness. Appreciation and acceptance for who and what you are. A passion for life and love. Sensuality is a world that virtually weaves itself in a rich tapestry of beauty, of intense arousal and passion where even the simplest touch of a finger drawn lightly across the bare skin of a lover’s back in the early morning hour causes the lover to awaken filled with a heightened awareness. In their heightened states, the colors of the world are painted in more radiant, vivid hues; eyes are deeper, skin is creamier as the sun filtering through the drapes dances off their bodies. An exquisite luxurious feeling. Joy. That exultation of spirit, pleasure, passion and delight is yours. Joy leads to ecstasy.

Keep ecstasy in our lives and lovers will go through their days filled with joy - that never ending supply of excitement of the spirit that brightens their lives and fills them with delight. Feeling and being are the sublime part of a man and brings warmth, gentleness, relatedness and perception to sensuality. It is the divine feminine nature existing in both a man and a woman. Feeling is the art of having a value structure and a sense of meaning and belonging. Feeling is the part that brings love to us. Romance in a relationship allows us to touch the soul of a lover. Romance and ecstasy mixed, allows us to touch the heart and soul.

What person doesn’t love Love? It is the essence of life. Love. Such a wonderful, essential part of our beings. Without it we would wither and die. Romance, ecstasy, passion and ultimately, love, are so powerful a human drive they have kindled wars, created works of art, consoled the dying, driven kings to insanity and bankrupted nations. Love is the most important aspect of our lives, yet we spend our lives searching for it when a simple act of vulnerability toward our feeling nature will cause it to spring forward, catching us like a bird in flight.

It is that vital, intrinsic, pulse-beating passion within us, our feeling natures, sensuality, that gives us creativity and a sense of joy. Through our feelings we experience our purpose and the special, ecstatic moments in our lives. It is through our feelings that our lives are given meaning and worth. It is our romancing one another in loving, ecstatic ways that helps us to discover that we are ALL sensual beings.